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    Default Approval of receiving head-what should I do?

    Finally created an account.... Here is my problem. While my wife enjoys recieved oral sex, and we do that quite frequently, she has been timid, howoever, about giving me a Blow Job. She has only done this a few times, and I have had to encourage her to do it first--she has never done this on her own volition. I think, more than anything, she is nervous, and self concious about it, and hasn't really had a chance to do it enough times to get over her hesitancy.

    I would like to know, what kind of feedback should I be giving her--while she is doing it--that I am enjoying it? The few times she has gone down on me, I have actually been kind of silent (but really enjoying it). It would almost seem embarrasing for me to be moaning, or something, and I am afraid that might make her stop. Because she is hesitant, and nervous, I am not sure that me straight-up commenting on it (e.g., "this is great") during the process would make her nervous, and cause her to stop or not want to do it again soon....

    Ladies... what "feedback" do you expect/like from your man when you are giving him head? Is your guys silent? Does he moan? Does he talk? What "feedback" helps you to enjoy giving head, because you know your man is enjoying recieving it? I am thinking about actual feedback, while she is giving head...
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    My man is very silent, but it's clear he's enjoying it. His #1 giveaway is clutching the sheets. I'd like it if he were more vocal, but not overboard.
    Something simple like "wow," "oh my God," or even just breathing hard is great for me. Even a little quiet moaning would be great.
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    Default try a little squirming beneath her

    when my fiancee begins moving his body under me he is showing me that he is involved and even willing to help me to get him to climax. Also, you might want to try pleasing her at the same time that she is pleasing you, if she is aroused while she is pleasing you, she will enjoy the experience much more, and in turn, SO WILL YOU!
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    For me? I would not care for your dead fish approach. Grab my head. Tell me what you want / like. Groan, yell and give me feedback that this is exactly what you want. Otherwise I would assume your just "letting" me do this and your not into it. After a few times? What would be the point?

    I think you should encourage her to "get off" whilst doing oral on you. A vibe, dildo or whatever. If there is a two way thing going it can be much hotter for both (I think / we think)
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    I personally don't need alot of noise. When I am performing I like to have my back rubbed or if he runs his hand thru my hair. I find it very distracting tho, if he is trying to give me some type of clitoral stimulation at the same time. I would rather not have that, while I am busy with him. I just want him to lay back and enjoy ! I do love the moans that are made just prior to orgasm, can't beat that no way no how !
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    your all lucky my hubby never has or never will give me any sort of oral even though ive begged him too he hates it and says its wrong
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    Cassie...

    You husband is living in the past... I hope you can make him see the present before he loses the future.

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    im at my wits end he says i need to go to the docs to slowdown myy sex drive! says oral is disgusting etc hes only32!
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    Red face receiving oral

    Quote Originally Posted by steveo View Post
    Finally created an account.... Here is my problem. While my wife enjoys recieved oral sex, and we do that quite frequently, she has been timid, howoever, about giving me a Blow Job. She has only done this a few times, and I have had to encourage her to do it first--she has never done this on her own volition. I think, more than anything, she is nervous, and self concious about it, and hasn't really had a chance to do it enough times to get over her hesitancy.

    I would like to know, what kind of feedback should I be giving her--while she is doing it--that I am enjoying it? The few times she has gone down on me, I have actually been kind of silent (but really enjoying it). It would almost seem embarrasing for me to be moaning, or something, and I am afraid that might make her stop. Because she is hesitant, and nervous, I am not sure that me straight-up commenting on it (e.g., "this is great") during the process would make her nervous, and cause her to stop or not want to do it again soon....

    Ladies... what "feedback" do you expect/like from your man when you are giving him head? Is your guys silent? Does he moan? Does he talk? What "feedback" helps you to enjoy giving head, because you know your man is enjoying recieving it? I am thinking about actual feedback, while she is giving head...
    Some women are so unsure of how to do it right that they don't do it right. When my man hunches as I do him, I know he is into it. His excitement really turns me on. I don't want vaginal stimuli, but I want him inside me---fast!
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    Default Does anyone's man bring them to squirt?

    My guy and I have been married for 20 years and oral sex is just an everyday thing. I like for him to do oral on me in the 69 position but I can not help but squirt when i am on top. Luckily he does not mind and even gets turned on by it. Some times I feel like I am drowning him. He says when I do that he knows he has gave me just what felt right. I don't like giving him head at the same time (some time i do it). I like to do him after I have my orgasm. Then I can give him my full attention. I know somewhere the question is going to come up so I will answer it now. Do we kiss afterwards? Absolutely! Do we swallow? Totally
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