Thread: how long should it take to orgasm?

I know that most women don't orgasm through intercourse. So, we've been trying oral and him fingering me. They both feel good but still not as mind blowing as I thought. Maybe we're not doing it long enough? How long should he go? Also, if anyone has any tips...we're kind of new to this so any suggestions are welcome. Thanks.

Me too.

Wife just doesn't want to use toys yet.

Times just vary. Sometimes I can orgasm right away & other times it takes forever. It just depends on how turned on you are and with me at certain times of the month it's so easy to orgasm!

my gf can take anywhere from 5-10 minutes, which is fast, when she is super hot before penetration or when she's on her period. Otherwise, 15-20 minutes. Everyonce in awhile, not at all.

I did forget to mention that my record is only taking 45 seconds to orgasm & it was 4 times in a row.

You could try intercourse and him rubbing you with his hand (or you doing it yourself). I prefer that much more than just oral or fingering - so much better. It usually takes me maybe 20 minutes or so... I wish I could cum more than once! grrr collegegirl2009! I managed to do it twice one time, but it took a long time and a lot of work on my bf's part...

KMS: I think that was just a random (yet awesome) experience. It was with my ex the first time we had sex. Weird, I know right?!? Usually the first time isn't the greatest since you're getting to know each other. He was just particularly awesome at sex. My now longterm bf & I use the little egg or silver bullet when we want me to orgasm faster.

It just depends on how excitied I am. Sometimes around 10 minutes, sometimes longer. The longer I'm with my husband the quicker he can make me do it.;

hehe definitely sounds fun collegegirl! hmmm toys to speed up the process - that sounds like a good idea! My bf has been wanting to get me some but I haven't been sure about it... perhaps I ought to look into it!

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