Thread: all play n No sex

here is my issue..........i had the best four play this week best oral sex for a couple of hours. for the first time i got .......... YOU ARE THE BEST....: I HAVE NEVER HAD IT LIKE THIS....OH MY GOD..STOP LOOK AT ME I MEAN IT YOU ARE THE BEST I'VE EVER HAD....while giving him head........and he is the biggest i have seen or had in my mouth.......but there was NO INTERCOURSE........ladies and gentlemen tell me whats wrong when everything seem to be going so right?

Is he your boyfriend? How long have you been dating? Are you receiving oral sex, or just giving it?

If he's just a fling, why would he care to have intercourse when his needs are being satisfied by the "best oral sex he's ever had"? He doesn't have to worry about you getting pregnant, or potentially giving him an std. You see, it's worry free for him and he's getting satisfied.

If he is your BF my response would be a bit different!

no not my BF. Thanx great wake up call! it's just sucks.....but your probably right.

oh and yeah he did return the favor.....we have known each other for about 2 years now but nothing had ever happened just a whole lot of flirting,but now i feel like he didn't step up to the plate.
I guess it's true what they say........sometimes the fantasy is better than the reallity

Did you guys just have the one experience so far? If so I wouldn't worry about it, maybe intercourse is the cards for next time :-) It sounds like you wore him out and maybe he just enjoyed the oral experience so much he wanted to leave it at that for the night. Doesn't mean he doesn't want other types of sex with you in the future. If you had a good time don't be sad and next time don't be so good at it so that he will want sex instead hehe, just kidding.

I think we ladies worry entirely too much about what certain actions or inactions mean and sometimes it just is what is with no hidden agenda.

we hang out at the same spot and I almost feel embarrased for him/and for me at the same time that i have decided not to show at least for a while. it's just feels awfull

girl, you go there and be proud, dont be embarassed, you did nothing wrong!! arent you curious to see what his reaction to you will be?

I'm sure you've heard this saying, "Why buy the cow when you're getting the milk for free?" That's what it sounds like a little. At least he has returned the favor. My only thinking is, don't get attached. The more you are together (and if you really like this guy) the stronger your feelings will be.

Don't let what happened stop you from going where you normally do. If you let him take that from you then you only have yourself to blame. Like the person above me said, go there and be proud. You have nothing to hide.