i'm new... need opinions/advice...

curiousgirl · 02-05-2009, 04:53 PM

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 months now. I've recently moved in with him, and the sex has been great. But lately it's going down hill... I don't seem to be enjoying it as much. We always do it in the missionary position, or doggy style. Now I know he likes me on top, and I enjoy being on top as well... but he does this thing where he just pretty much holds me while he moves in and out. This is kind of uncomfortable for me, and also i enjoy the control when i'm on top. don't really have any questions, just needed some opinions...

Also... another problem... our sex life is completely dead, and i think it's because of me. i've noticed this odor, he said that he hasn't noticed it at all... but it makes me not even wanna take off my pants in front of him anymore. i can always smell it. and i shower everyday... would like some female opinions on this one...

thanks.

**Hopeless Dork** · 02-05-2009, 07:29 PM

Make sure to visit a doctor or clinic for an exam. Odor is an indicator that something is wrong.

Beckers · 02-07-2009, 02:56 PM

You need to speak up when it comes to positions. If something isn't pleasurable for you, you need to tell him otherwise you'll want to do it less and less. And considering you stopped having sex now, that may have more to do with it then that odor. As for the odor, thats most commonly linked to vaginal hygiene and yeast infections. Don't be embarrassed talk to your doctor about it.

02-05-2009, 04:53 PM	#1
curiousgirl Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 7	i'm new... need opinions/advice... So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 months now. I've recently moved in with him, and the sex has been great. But lately it's going down hill... I don't seem to be enjoying it as much. We always do it in the missionary position, or doggy style. Now I know he likes me on top, and I enjoy being on top as well... but he does this thing where he just pretty much holds me while he moves in and out. This is kind of uncomfortable for me, and also i enjoy the control when i'm on top. don't really have any questions, just needed some opinions... Also... another problem... our sex life is completely dead, and i think it's because of me. i've noticed this odor, he said that he hasn't noticed it at all... but it makes me not even wanna take off my pants in front of him anymore. i can always smell it. and i shower everyday... would like some female opinions on this one... thanks.

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02-05-2009, 07:29 PM	#2
Hopeless Dork Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: United States Posts: 1,235	Make sure to visit a doctor or clinic for an exam. Odor is an indicator that something is wrong.

02-07-2009, 02:56 PM	#3
Beckers Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 13	You need to speak up when it comes to positions. If something isn't pleasurable for you, you need to tell him otherwise you'll want to do it less and less. And considering you stopped having sex now, that may have more to do with it then that odor. As for the odor, thats most commonly linked to vaginal hygiene and yeast infections. Don't be embarrassed talk to your doctor about it.