Thread: Small penis?

its not about the size well... to me its not my husband is 5 inches and my ex was 8 but he sucked and my husband doesnt its not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean.

Hopeless Dork your post made me giggle and I agree.

An ex of mine completely turned me on all the time when I was with him but he did have a small penis. Different positions help but my ex made it up to me in other ways also. By the time he wanted sex I would have been satisfied several times and just thinking of that turned me on more and made it better.

I have never once thought of dumping a guy because his penis was small and first times with new partners arnt always the best once you get to know each other sexually things get better.

ive dealt with someone with a small penis as well, and he didnt get rock hard, it took forever to get it in because of that, however ive never had any other problems with any other sex partners with bigger, harder erections. i bailed, im a very sexual being and cannot deal with not being sexually satisfied.

As lovemyself says, it's often the tongue that does the real work. Partners I've had have been uncomfortable with me inside. I've not yet met a partner who hasn't preferred my caressing tongue between her legs. Some women are uncomfortable with penetration anyway.

i am a 30 yr old woman and i have been married for 5 yrs. my husband is very small..3 1/2 when he is erect. the first few years the sex was acceptable because of the newly found passion and being in love. but because of his size, he doesnt really penetrate me. he has made up for this thru oral sex, but i long for very deep penetration. we have recently introduced 'toys' in the bedroom at his suggestion but i can sense some tension when he sees me orgasm from my dildo. i have told him repeatedly that we dont have to use it but he insists. i cannot orgasm srongly through oral sex but deep penetration makes me cum incredibly. i love the out of this man but when im wet, the lack of friction and size makes intercourse almost useless. he tries so hard it hurts my heart but his penis just cant make me have the 'O'...HELP!

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

My guy has a pretty big you know what... and as much pleasure as it gives me some of the most intense orgasms I've ever had with him have been from one of his fingers. Its like he can target the area I crave and apply intense pressure ... and that spot for me is only a couple inches inside of me. When he is rubbing there I feel like I am stuffed EVERYWHERE down there.. the sensation is so overwhelming.

All of us chicks differ on where our hot spots are but I'd imagine that if he was targetting the right zones during penetraton that your guy's 3 inches could adequetly reach them. Especially in certain positions that shorten your vagnal length (doggy style, legs over shoulders etc)

I'd advise you to try to tone down your 'reaction' to the dildo, not saying stop enjoying it.. but if you are silent during sex and start tossing out the explitives and 'oh yes's' with the dildo that is going to prove very damaging to how he feels about himself, and the dildo.

Sex is major, being on the same page sexually matters. But its such a small percentage of your day, if everything inside you loves this man and he is pleasing you sexually (even by use of a dildo).... your are leaps and bounds ahead of women that have significant others with big penises but no interest in using them to please their lover.

Try not to focus on his size, but the pleasure he brings you, his willingness do bring it to you in whatever form works (dildos, oral, etc).

i dont focus on his size. i try to make him feel as masculine as i can. one day he is confident, the next he is not! my support is constant and unyielding. how do you make a man confident that knows he has a small penis?! i never make it an issue. sometimes he will be doing his best and i will compliment him and encourage him, and then out of nowhere he wil just stop and roll off of me! when hes had a few drinks he is confident and then encourages me to use my toy while i satisfy him orally and we have a great night! but once he cums and i do as well he asks me repeatedly how much did i like having something inside me that is much bigger than me!..i mean what the !..i bend over backwards for this man..literally!..and why should i not be vocal if im enjoying myself? he encourages me to use it and when i cum he seems resentful..i cant help it if i prefer a big penis..but he has to meet me half way..somehow