New Partner = Stage Fright

**Beautiful Disaster** · 02-19-2009 10:08 AM

Sooo...to make this as short as possible, I've been dating a new guy for around 2 months now give or take a bit. We have done a lot of frustrating (but fun) making out but I think I'm ready to make him my next victim (hehe). He's a shy, nervous type of guy, and I sort of feel like he's going to need some help from me in "that area"...ya know, a little teaching. Truthfully, that makes me a bit nervous as I have always been with guys who are older and who just know from experience how to make sex good. (except for the one who couldn't get it up! hardy har).

I'm one that tends to lose interest after sex. Shallow yes, but true. But this guy, well he's really sweet and I don't want that to happen.

SOO...any advice on how to plan this out to make it exciting, hot and memorable? Advice advice...you ladies know it all.

And I've invited him over tonight, so I might need to quick advice. haha.

**SinisterUrge** · 02-19-2009 12:14 PM

Originally Posted by Beautiful Disaster

SOO...any advice on how to plan this out to make it exciting, hot and memorable?

Nothing says fun like breaking in a noob!

1. Making out (Products needed: cherry lipgloss)
2. Toe sucking (he's not into that? skip to 3)
3. Remove shirt and let him see the twins.
4. Remove his shirt, add blindfold. (Good time for hot wax + clothespins on the nipples if he likes it rough, feathers & icecubes if not)
5. Full back rub from neck to ankles (Need: massage oil)
6. Perform analingus (aka. rimming) and follow-up with a half-&-half handjob/blowjob for his first pop.
7. Since he'll need some recovery time go back to 5, and have him oil you up.
8. Analingus & cunnilingus to you from him.
9. Still need more time before round 2? Have him work you with a toy or two (nobody every regerets too many orgasms).
10. Now that he's up again, missionary position (I'd suggest 5 slow thrusts followed by three hard & fast... it'll help keep him from cumming too fast if he keeps his rhythm.
11. Doggy-style to finish.
12. Share a Marlboro & bottle of water. Make awkward excuse to get him to go home, promise to call him but forget all about it until you drunk dial him six months from now.

**Beautiful Disaster** · 02-19-2009 12:46 PM

LOL!!! I love it...you're brilliant. #12 made me laugh out loud.

Yikes, I'm nervous. Wine perhaps? haha.

**skipper** · 02-19-2009 01:32 PM

Seduce and dominate him. He'll love it. I would go into detail, but what I'd say would sound lame after SU's post!!!

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 02-19-2009 01:35 PM

The lights are off...... BD, is "sort of home", can't reply now, cause the deed has been um done.......

Sooooo????

CW

**Beautiful Disaster** · 02-19-2009 02:39 PM

Well the deed has not been done yet. LOL. And perhaps it won't be done tonight, or perhaps it will. Depending on how exceptionally sexy and beautiful I feel tonight. haha! If the deed is done however, I hope I have a good story to tell you tomorrow. But if you see one started with "WTF!?!?!?" you can assume it wasn't good. LOL!!

**rcoreyus** · 02-19-2009 04:11 PM

Just remember that shy does not equal a lack of interest in sex. He may be too shy to start anything, but perfectly happy (and maybe skilled) in keeping going once you start.

**Beautiful Disaster** · 02-19-2009 06:22 PM

Only kidding CW. Well, sorta. Ends up he's not coming tonight. *sigh* and I am reminded as to why I have always dated older men (though that hasn't worked either). Basically, he's feeling stressed today for a variety of reasons, one of them being that his dog is sick. So being that I invited him here, an he wasn't going to be able to come, I thought "well if he wants to see me, he'll offer for me to come there".....but he didn't. So, i made other plans....then I'm getting frowny face text messages. I told him he could've asked me to come, and considering we've only been dating around 2 months, I wasn't going to invite myself into his space on such a stressful day. Then he comes back with all this stuff he's feeling and going through, ON FREAKING TEXT MESSAGE! I wrote back and told him i would no longer text about this.

**Hopeless Dork** · 02-19-2009 06:27 PM

If he only knew.. you spent all day planning and plotting to give him the time of his life.. lol. Gosh I almost feel sorry for him not knowing what he missed, I am sure he would be feeling a lot less stressed right about NOW if he had just stuck to plan hehe.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 02-19-2009 06:45 PM

HAHA, Hopeless that's too funny.

Damd girl...

Well, I am an animal lover, so i get the "dog sick bit" , but, I don't get the, "well get your butt over here woman", ? Instead, of poor me, whoa is me, blah blah and by text.

I had thought, before, maybe he isn't shy, maybe it's cause he is dating such a strong, smart woman that he is actually a bit in-secure instead.

Now, me worries... lol....

CW