Thread: totally embarresed..scared to have sex again:(

Omg! That has happened to me like twice! I know. . .I ain't gonna lie. . .it's hella embaressing. . .i donno what causes it tho. . .but i guess it's just air trapped in that is forced out when you like push out on ur vagina. . .

*HERES A HUG*


Don't feel bad hun

some people call it queefing (sp?), yeah it's embarassing, but having sex is almost always going to lead to something embarassing at some point, the biggest thing is to be doing it with someone you trust enough that you can eventually laugh about these things, you can't really prevent it unless you stick to really mild sex with minimal movement. Trust me he'll get over it. I was comfortable enough that I could fart having sex just cause I coulnd't be bothered holding it!

Ya sometimes it's embarrassing, but like the others said, it's normal. It's called a "queef". I don't know if that's the actual term for it but it's what we call it.

Just try to laugh it off...or make it seem as though you're doing it on purpose. Face it, he just squirted cum all inside/on you. That's gross. He shouldn't be upset if you 'queef' on him every once in a while!

Smile!

Yes, it's happened to me a couple of times. Once it was like neverending, and it was quite embarrassing! I never really know how to react to it, should I laugh? Should I make it a topic for conversation? Normally I pretend it never happened but sometimes that makes the fact that it did happen and that we BOTH heard it even more embarrassing. Just lay as still as you can after doing the deed until he goes to the bathroom so you get the chance to let it all out in privacy...

No, don't really do that. He might want to cuddle. Sometimes being a woman just isn't as pretty as we make ourselves up to be!

Oh and by the way, it normally only happens to me when I'm on all fours, or he elevates my hips when I'm lying on my back. So, try and pay attention to the positioning you are in when it happens if it's that embarrassing...but pretty soon it won't be too big of a deal, and if your guy is mature and experienced, he won't think twice.

most guys are so happy to be having sex, things like that dont faze them.

wow.. i had so many things to think about writing while reading this i think i may forget some.

of course this happens. and its funny. of course when you realize it wasn't a fart but OF COURSE the magical queef. lol. I say if you are both grown to have sex and both know what it is now- then laugh and enjoy the wonders of sex.

But this never happens to me anymore. I think it has a lot to do with the guy coming all the way out and going back in too many times. I think if he staying mostly in and more thrusting it doesn't happen. Also whenever he penetrates completely i do a kegel so that the air can't come in when he goes in. It usually takes care of it. That just makes things better because doing kegels during sex is great. try it. better sex all around.

It happens to me everytime im on top for 69. i wont even do it now unless im on the bottom.