Thread: totally embarresed..scared to have sex again:(

hi everyone im new and kinda scared to post but i really need some support
i was having sex with my boyfriend a few weeks ago and i heard a noise from my vagina..(this is embarresing)..like a fart..boyfriend said it was cos air gets trapped in there and stuff but it really embarrased me and made me scared to have sex again. So we havnt had sex for a while cos im just so scared and embarresed it will happen again..i hate it ..i dont know what to do..need a hug or something, any advice?
please help

It's happended to most women I'd guess. Your boyfriend is right in what it is, just tell him how you felt, ask for the hug. Consider it your vagina yelling that it's enjoying itself

Its really nothing you can control, if hes pumping in and out alot and quickly hes going to push some air in there, air is going to make that sound. Its far less embarassing than a similar thing that happens during anal sex....But that not being the point here.. hehe let me just say, he is right and its his doing not yours! Queefs ( a term for a vaginal air expulsion) depend more on your boyfriends technique than anything else. Don't worry about it

Its perfectly normal to fanny fart, I do them all the time, the vagina fills with air when you get aroused (prior to the onset of orgasm)and then when you partner bares down on you it pushes the air out.

Causing you to make this noise, don't worry or feel embarrased there are worse things like squirting, lets face it sex can be very messy and noisy.

Relax and enjoy it.

Yes, when it first happens it can be very embarassing. But I do think it happens to most women. Obviously, he knew what happened as he explained it to you. I have heard them called Varts--vaginal farts. Its a pretty natural occurance. Before you have sex again, just joke around and comment that maybe it will happen again, try to be relaxed and just laugh if it does. Don't stop having sex, after all its just noise.

lol... my bf seemed to think there was something wrong with me because that had never happened with me before. Apparently the noisier and the messier, the better. So I started wondering how I could make that happen and what was wrong with me because I couldn't! It finally started happening here and there a few months back so he was satisfied. As others have said, I think it has something to do with the way he's doing it, and how wet you are.

I remember my wife doing such a fart after sex one time and it was so funny and unexpected that we fell into each others arms and laughed till we cried.

Sorry, this is not unique.

hi everyone,
thank you so much for the replys i really appreciate it , really needed the support and reassurance. Anyway i am going to talk with my boyfriend soon about it but yeah i just get embarressed and hate it..wish it didnt happen ..oh well
thanks again

Your name "silent girl" is quite ironic considering the topic. HEHE. HEHEHE. Okay enough of that. Glad to see you're feeling better about this. I've always been SOooo embarassed by this. It's normal, yeah, but gosh it's almost impossible not to feel embarassed when you suddenly make this loud farting noise in the middle of a sexy moment. LOL. I totally understand. Just one of those things you have to get through...and with time it'll get easier and more comfortable to just accept those sorts of things.

howabout a regular fart when trying a new position? been there, done that. nothing to worry about, laugh about it and carry on