Does hot clothing crank up a guy's sex drive? - Page 2

njman2008 · 03-03-2009, 04:46 AM

kms - that is pretty funny. I like having sex with clothes on too. Dresses and skirts are my favorite. I think I role play in my head way too much.

anonymouswhitemale · 03-05-2009, 11:27 AM

Short skirts and slightly revealing blouses are nice, but nothing like frilly panties! I really do miss those tennis panties the girls used to wear at Wimbledon. Once I was in a restaurant out west, and all the waitresses were wearing frilly tennis panties... WOW!!!! I wanted to bury my face in them!

**SinisterUrge** · 03-05-2009, 03:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steph33

Now I need to find some "ultimate outfit" to put on to ask him to marry me. I doubt he'll ask just out of total fear I'll say no, even though I know he wants to.

Is he a geek? If so Google 'HBO Cathouse stormtrooper costume'

probably NSFW

**Steph33** · 03-05-2009, 03:37 PM

Thanks, but he's very much NOT a geek LOL

I found a place in the next city that makes custom leather outfits with both leather and metal. I've started drawing a design, leather gather belt with the actual straps to the stockings made of specific chrome chain, and other details that will arouse the Metal Head music fan in him (over the elbow fingerless leather gloves covered with 2 inch spikes that lace up from mid-forearm, the cut-out corset design, visor hat, boots, etc). Just have to finish the design and get a price quote. Only thing I can get in a store are the fishnet stockings and already have the rather GIANT 80s Metal / Rocker wig already that gives him heart failure by itself

308dulce17 · 03-05-2009, 10:51 PM

hopelessdork, same situation, I love to wear these things and he ll just do it with orr without them, cant find what lights him up,

**Hopeless Dork** · 03-05-2009, 11:12 PM

I am thinking that for some guys they think anything you wear is good, some things they think are hotter than others to them sure. But I don't think all guys have a particular clothing fetish, for some its shoes I'm sure.. or for some its your boobs (no matter what you present them in) lol.

Not all male fantasies are tied up in a particular type of outfit, sure many are. Sometimes my man is more turned on than others but it never seems to be relating to the clothes I wear. That doesn't stop me from trying though

TTrix · 03-06-2009, 12:55 PM

My boyfriend is really into lingerie. It is a surefire way to get him in bed if I put on an outfit, he is naked and all over me immediately! My wonderful 43 yr old man is instantly transformed into a horny teenager........makes me turned on just thinking about it

**Steph33** · 03-07-2009, 03:58 PM

Not sure if its actually the clothes, just accenting the part(s) of you he likes best. A lot of guys are into boobs so a lot of what is sold sets that area off.

I've got great boobs but (of course) my guy is cranked up by thighs and stomach. I have to cut some things out and find other ways to focus on those areas.

It's all just fun and funny. Both the expression on his face when I get it right and the laughs from the stuff he buys on-line.

Now that warmer months are arriving, it's a bit easier. I send him on his annual swim suit hunt and wear whatever band-aid and rubber band thing he picks out around the apartment for the summer. I get my own for tan and swimming, his picks I'm afraid if anything snaps in public I'll get arrested.

Jeni87 · 03-11-2009, 01:55 AM

wow i need to get in shape!!

how do you deal with been over weight and wanting to wear something sexy for your bf!? im weight about 180 and i am 5'3 size 12 i am think evenly for the most part but i could never show my stomach or wear soemthing too revling b/c im unconfortable.
does anyone know a site where i can buy sexy clothes size 10-12?

**Steph33** · 03-11-2009, 03:12 AM

Jeni87

Do a web site search for "sexy lingerie" , there are tons of sites. Nearly all have plus sized sections with nice stuff. almost all are actually modeled so you can see what stuff will look like. I hate the sites that just show a flat photo of something with nobody wearing it and don't but there because you have no idea.

I'm sure if you go through a number of them your find stuff you like, some have more of what you're looking for than others.

From experience, avoid the plastic/vinal stuff, it's so hot you'll die. I wear what the BF got me but crank the air conditioner to do it. After a couple sets he saw how uncomfortable it was and buys leather or cloth. The vinal boots are like wearing plastic bags, MAJOR sweat

I guess it's to look like leather but cost less. Better to get leather (if what you want) or just get cloth stuff.

03-05-2009, 10:51 PM	#15
308dulce17 Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 26	hopelessdork, same situation, I love to wear these things and he ll just do it with orr without them, cant find what lights him up, __________________ dulce

03-05-2009, 11:12 PM	#16
Hopeless Dork Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: United States Posts: 2,191	I am thinking that for some guys they think anything you wear is good, some things they think are hotter than others to them sure. But I don't think all guys have a particular clothing fetish, for some its shoes I'm sure.. or for some its your boobs (no matter what you present them in) lol. Not all male fantasies are tied up in a particular type of outfit, sure many are. Sometimes my man is more turned on than others but it never seems to be relating to the clothes I wear. That doesn't stop me from trying though __________________ ------------- Defintion of Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - Albert Einstein

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03-03-2009, 04:46 AM	#11
njman2008 Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 24	kms - that is pretty funny. I like having sex with clothes on too. Dresses and skirts are my favorite. I think I role play in my head way too much.

03-05-2009, 11:27 AM	#12
anonymouswhitemale Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: New Jersey Posts: 9	Short skirts and slightly revealing blouses are nice, but nothing like frilly panties! I really do miss those tennis panties the girls used to wear at Wimbledon. Once I was in a restaurant out west, and all the waitresses were wearing frilly tennis panties... WOW!!!! I wanted to bury my face in them!

03-05-2009, 03:37 PM	#14
Steph33 Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 289	Thanks, but he's very much NOT a geek LOL I found a place in the next city that makes custom leather outfits with both leather and metal. I've started drawing a design, leather gather belt with the actual straps to the stockings made of specific chrome chain, and other details that will arouse the Metal Head music fan in him (over the elbow fingerless leather gloves covered with 2 inch spikes that lace up from mid-forearm, the cut-out corset design, visor hat, boots, etc). Just have to finish the design and get a price quote. Only thing I can get in a store are the fishnet stockings and already have the rather GIANT 80s Metal / Rocker wig already that gives him heart failure by itself

03-06-2009, 12:55 PM	#17
TTrix Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 11	My boyfriend is really into lingerie. It is a surefire way to get him in bed if I put on an outfit, he is naked and all over me immediately! My wonderful 43 yr old man is instantly transformed into a horny teenager........makes me turned on just thinking about it

03-07-2009, 03:58 PM	#18
Steph33 Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 289	Not sure if its actually the clothes, just accenting the part(s) of you he likes best. A lot of guys are into boobs so a lot of what is sold sets that area off. I've got great boobs but (of course) my guy is cranked up by thighs and stomach. I have to cut some things out and find other ways to focus on those areas. It's all just fun and funny. Both the expression on his face when I get it right and the laughs from the stuff he buys on-line. Now that warmer months are arriving, it's a bit easier. I send him on his annual swim suit hunt and wear whatever band-aid and rubber band thing he picks out around the apartment for the summer. I get my own for tan and swimming, his picks I'm afraid if anything snaps in public I'll get arrested.

03-11-2009, 01:55 AM	#19
Jeni87 Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 16	wow i need to get in shape!! how do you deal with been over weight and wanting to wear something sexy for your bf!? im weight about 180 and i am 5'3 size 12 i am think evenly for the most part but i could never show my stomach or wear soemthing too revling b/c im unconfortable. does anyone know a site where i can buy sexy clothes size 10-12?

03-11-2009, 03:12 AM	#20
Steph33 Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 289	Jeni87 Do a web site search for "sexy lingerie" , there are tons of sites. Nearly all have plus sized sections with nice stuff. almost all are actually modeled so you can see what stuff will look like. I hate the sites that just show a flat photo of something with nobody wearing it and don't but there because you have no idea. I'm sure if you go through a number of them your find stuff you like, some have more of what you're looking for than others. From experience, avoid the plastic/vinal stuff, it's so hot you'll die. I wear what the BF got me but crank the air conditioner to do it. After a couple sets he saw how uncomfortable it was and buys leather or cloth. The vinal boots are like wearing plastic bags, MAJOR sweat I guess it's to look like leather but cost less. Better to get leather (if what you want) or just get cloth stuff.