his penis is too big for me

minty · 03-02-2009, 01:50 AM

My bf is very tall, and although he's white, his penis is really enormous (around 9'1/2)
I'm only 18 (hes 25) and I'm kinda small. It hurts when we have sex, but I can't help by asking harder because I get lost in the moment, so it gets pretty violent, and we have sex reaaaaaally reaally frequently.
The problem is that afterwards I end up really hurt.
I was wondering if my vagina will get permamently damaged by having sex so roughly... if it can get loose, I mean, not tight anymore....

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 03-02-2009, 02:42 AM

Firstly, don't get an allusion that "white boys can't jump", men are born in all forms and sizes, regardless of race.

Secondly, you need to relax... If it doesn't hurt during cause you are "in the moment" then you are feeling good during, if after hurts, then is he thrusting constantly with you and your dry?

Your body can't cope if your not wet and so you maybe need to visit this side of what you can do with spermicides, etc, to help you with it.

You can not get permantely damaged by having sex roughly.....

You obviously can accomodate him so that's not an issue of "loose" it's more to do with your body not producing enough to remain wet enough during and so you need man made assistance.

CW

**Hopeless Dork** · 03-02-2009, 04:46 AM

Actually, you don't have to worry about your vagina becoming loose from having a big penis thrusting around in you. The vagina is consisting of muscles, muscles need exercise, having sex - kegalling against a penis is working them out, helping them to stay tight.

Some women think that having sex will make them loose, but the opposite is more likely. Women that don't do kegals etc.. will have a more slack vagina generally.

I agree with CW, make sure that you are good and lubricated either naturally or with the aid of some good old fashioned ky before barking the harder stuff. If your dry he could cause some tearing in there. Our bodies were meant to deliver babies way larger than any man (most are 20 inches long - babies not men..lol)

That being said, sex should NOT be as uncomfortable as childbirth

Talk to him when you are not actively having sex and let him know that although you call for harder in the heat of the moment, for him to ease up just a little to give your vagina some healing time. He'll probably be so flattered that he will oblige.

03-02-2009, 01:50 AM	#1
minty Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 2	his penis is too big for me My bf is very tall, and although he's white, his penis is really enormous (around 9'1/2) I'm only 18 (hes 25) and I'm kinda small. It hurts when we have sex, but I can't help by asking harder because I get lost in the moment, so it gets pretty violent, and we have sex reaaaaaally reaally frequently. The problem is that afterwards I end up really hurt. I was wondering if my vagina will get permamently damaged by having sex so roughly... if it can get loose, I mean, not tight anymore....

03-02-2009, 02:42 AM	#2
CHANDLERS WISH WH Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 9,970 Blog Entries: 7	Firstly, don't get an allusion that "white boys can't jump", men are born in all forms and sizes, regardless of race. Secondly, you need to relax... If it doesn't hurt during cause you are "in the moment" then you are feeling good during, if after hurts, then is he thrusting constantly with you and your dry? Your body can't cope if your not wet and so you maybe need to visit this side of what you can do with spermicides, etc, to help you with it. You can not get permantely damaged by having sex roughly..... You obviously can accomodate him so that's not an issue of "loose" it's more to do with your body not producing enough to remain wet enough during and so you need man made assistance. CW __________________ Do we not realise that in order to find a soul It doesn't happen over night if truth were to be told Like everything in life that's hard to achieve you must believe! Register! \| Rules/FAQ \| Contact Mod

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03-02-2009, 04:46 AM	#3
Hopeless Dork Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: United States Posts: 1,238	Actually, you don't have to worry about your vagina becoming loose from having a big penis thrusting around in you. The vagina is consisting of muscles, muscles need exercise, having sex - kegalling against a penis is working them out, helping them to stay tight. Some women think that having sex will make them loose, but the opposite is more likely. Women that don't do kegals etc.. will have a more slack vagina generally. I agree with CW, make sure that you are good and lubricated either naturally or with the aid of some good old fashioned ky before barking the harder stuff. If your dry he could cause some tearing in there. Our bodies were meant to deliver babies way larger than any man (most are 20 inches long - babies not men..lol) That being said, sex should NOT be as uncomfortable as childbirth Talk to him when you are not actively having sex and let him know that although you call for harder in the heat of the moment, for him to ease up just a little to give your vagina some healing time. He'll probably be so flattered that he will oblige.