Thread: guys cuming inside..

STD or unwanted child.

I think I'd pick option #3, no sex

Can't believe any grown woman is that dumb. She wants a kid (or doesn't care if she gets knocked up) or won't admit an STD. Unless her tubes are tied, they are the only answers.

Thanks WildChild and Steph33.. I agree, if I fall for this one I'd reap the results of my stupidity.

What you said there Steph is right, I can't believe she is that dumb either.. but then what do you expect from a semi immature 20 year old? I can see now that all she wants is a child (took both of you to get that into my head), which would be fine if we were ready for one.. but we aren't. I will talk to her and get her to see reason.. if she is not willing to compromise and use a condom, then it's not going to go very far at all.. and better of ending it now before it gets worse.

I've already been tested for STD's, all are good my end.. so it's just hearsay from her that she doesn't.. and no her tubes aren't tied either.. so yeah, I guess all she wants then I guess is a child, which is pretty sad to want to have it that way.

Anyways, thanks again guys.. you've been quite helpful

DO NOT cum inside of this girl. Whatever you do. People always assume that the girl is ALWAYS the victim when it comes to sex (i.e she wants to use condoms & he doesn't, he wants this & she doesn't) when really, us women can be just as bad. You need to lay down the law. Tell this girl that if she's having sex, she needs to assume the responsibility. Ask her what she would do if you got her pregnant? Would she MAKE you stay? Would she say we MUST have this baby? It wasn't your fault. Tell her that you WILL NOT have sex with her unless some sort of contraceptive is used. And don't believe her if she says she's on the pill... you should really use condoms and/or some kind of spermicide too just in case.

There are some women who intentionally get pregnant to trap a guy into staying with them (or at least into paying child support). It is low trick that works best on the most honorable men. Don't fall for it.

Maybe she is just stupid - in that case you are not doing her a favor by risking getting her pregnant. Maybe she is devious - in that case RUN RUN RUN.

Most STDs can be cured. A baby is a commitment for the rest of your life.

Thanks guys for all your help.. I was confused as this situation has never happened to me before, and I just needed some guidance.

rcoreyus, I agree with you.. There are quite a few women these days who intentionally get pregnant to make a guy into staying with them, or to hit him up for child maintenance. Don't worry, I won't fall for it. I think maybe she is just immature sometimes, and no I'm not doing either of us a favor by getting her pregnant.

silly, I agree with you too.. I need to lay down the the law with her and sooner the better, and I will tell her she needs to assume the responsibility. I will mention to her next time, that I will not have sex with her unless some sort of contraceptive is used. No she isn't on the pill or any other form of contraception.. and I agree you should always use condoms and/or some kind of spermicide, unless of cause you know she is on contraceptives, had her tubes tied, or you are both willing to have a baby.

Right now I am not working due to a car accident 10 years ago.. and it's not that I don't want a child with her, I really do, it's just now is not the right time for me to financially be able to support us both and a child.. maybe when I get more financially secure then we can discuss things like that.

anyways, thanks for all your help again guys.. it has been great appreciated

Hate condoms. We've rarely had to use them, and I'm glad!