Thread: The sex has become less than a minute from start to finish

Anyone know what I can do to help my guy last longer????Is this normal, he can only last about a min. before he comes...leaving me frustrated

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Can he last longer a second time? Or will he do other things to please you first? Or maybe use a toy on you afterwards. Its not really under his control, and stressing him about it will probably make it worse - but I understand how frustrating it is for you.

Is he 17? If so thats not uncommon.

Originally Posted by bronzebunny

Anyone know what I can do to help my guy last longer????Is this normal, he can only last about a min. before he comes...leaving me frustrated

Well, you could try to less sexy and hot, but that's not a good solution. You need to slow the boy down. He needs to change the motion up frequently so he slows down and as he builds up again, change it up again. You can also try the squeeze technique on him.

Perhaps the best thing is give him a few minutes to recover and do it again. He can be attending to your needs during this time. He should be lasting much longer the second time.

I'm guessing he's young and you are too hot.

my ex was like that, i stopped having sex with him when he was in his fifties but it was still less than say two minutes. when i didnt want to and he was trying to talk me into it, he'd say come on - i promise i will be quick! i didnt want to say well that the bleeping problem you idiot!!! not sure what you do about it though. i think i have seen delaying sprays at the pharmacy maybe you could ask - if your not too embarassed!

he can train to build his stamina using the start stop method, also squeezing at the base of the penis when he feels he's going to cum, this just kind of pinches it off, but it gives him a second to let everything die down and with time he should slowly start lasting longer. Also consider a check up with the GP, may be a medical condition.

I recently had a lover like that. He would maybe last a minute, sometimes he'd only have to enter me, and that was it. Done !! And believe me, we aren't teens. Yes, its very frustrating. But I can only imagine how embarrassing it is for him and everyone like him. Check out some websites on Premature ejaculation, they do give good advice, but he has to seek help as well, after all its not your problem, and its not occuring with your body, but his.

You might consider a sleeve for his penis if he is open to the idea. They come in a variety of shapes and sizes. They help to make sure that You get yours and afterwards he can have his. LOL! I resisted at first but now I really love ours. You just want to warm them up first and lube very well. I settled on a strapless 8.5 inch strapless (extension) and he just puts me on the moon when we use it. That would be way too much for some girls but I just don't let him insert all of it. He is attentive and careful so I can trust him wearing one. It's another alternative that some find very helpful. That's just an idea that you might consider if all else fails. You will have to tell him when to stop! Good Luck [][][][][][]--------xX

Originally Posted by mewhenim

he can train to build his stamina using the start stop method, also squeezing at the base of the penis when he feels he's going to cum, this just kind of pinches it off, but it gives him a second to let everything die down and with time he should slowly start lasting longer. Also consider a check up with the GP, may be a medical condition.

Does this work? It sounds like it might hurt or cause an injury.

My guy likes to last, get close, stop, restart. It makes for a bigger production of fluid at the end.

He'll last better with you on top, try that.

I get oral every time we have sex near the start so I get my first couple "offs" early. If he occassionally slips and cums early (makes HIM mad), I'm still fine.

I love doggy style and he can't cum that way if we're standing or if I'm on my knees, so try that before doing a position where he normally cums.

Bottom line, be more in control of what's happening if he's to fast.