first time female orgasm

cstevensg · 03-04-2009, 12:12 PM

So last night me and my girlfriend happened to be messing around, and after getting into it for a good 45 minutes or so she just kinda tensed up(could feel her vagina squeeze), and then she just fell against the wall and lay there panting.

Everything she described afterwords sounded like she had orgasm'ed, but in the past when I have seen a female orgasm it has came with convulsions and a little more sound effects(my gf is usually quite vocal as well). She honestly isnt sure if she came or not, she says the best way she could describe it is an out of body experience.

I have also heard that first time orgasms can be slightly less intense, is this true? Not really sure what to make of this to be honest.

cstevensg · 03-04-2009, 12:15 PM

also I just want to add that I have been with a few girls in my past and she really did look like she was about to orgasm for almost 5 minutes before that happened.

**Hopeless Dork** · 03-04-2009, 01:30 PM

I don't think being quiet has much to do with it, sometimes I am loud when I orgasm and sometimes I am really quiet and it is never relating to the intensity of the sex or the orgasm I don't think. I never realize what I am doing when I am doing it because I'm in the moment, but later I will think whoa that was loud, or sometimes I realize I didn't make a sound.

If it was her first orgasm, she'd have nothing to compare it to yet to be able to be 100% certain she's had one, once it happens again - she'll know

**WildChild** · 03-04-2009, 01:56 PM

Orgasms vary from little shivers to big WOWs. Muscle contractions are part of it. They can be a long, low level, relaxed thing or a more tense and intense thing. As long as she enjoys it, it's all good.

03-04-2009, 12:12 PM	#1
cstevensg Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 14	first time female orgasm So last night me and my girlfriend happened to be messing around, and after getting into it for a good 45 minutes or so she just kinda tensed up(could feel her vagina squeeze), and then she just fell against the wall and lay there panting. Everything she described afterwords sounded like she had orgasm'ed, but in the past when I have seen a female orgasm it has came with convulsions and a little more sound effects(my gf is usually quite vocal as well). She honestly isnt sure if she came or not, she says the best way she could describe it is an out of body experience. I have also heard that first time orgasms can be slightly less intense, is this true? Not really sure what to make of this to be honest.

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03-04-2009, 12:15 PM	#2
cstevensg Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 14	also I just want to add that I have been with a few girls in my past and she really did look like she was about to orgasm for almost 5 minutes before that happened.

03-04-2009, 01:30 PM	#3
Hopeless Dork Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: United States Posts: 1,238	I don't think being quiet has much to do with it, sometimes I am loud when I orgasm and sometimes I am really quiet and it is never relating to the intensity of the sex or the orgasm I don't think. I never realize what I am doing when I am doing it because I'm in the moment, but later I will think whoa that was loud, or sometimes I realize I didn't make a sound. If it was her first orgasm, she'd have nothing to compare it to yet to be able to be 100% certain she's had one, once it happens again - she'll know

03-04-2009, 01:56 PM	#4
WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 6,233 Blog Entries: 5	Orgasms vary from little shivers to big WOWs. Muscle contractions are part of it. They can be a long, low level, relaxed thing or a more tense and intense thing. As long as she enjoys it, it's all good.