Thread: Unsatisfying sex

Sometimes moaning isn't enough and you actually have to tell him that he did something you liked. It also helps to be very open about sex. I used to always be all shy when the subject came up between me and my fiance, but now I find it has improved our sex life and our bond. Also, don't be so serious. Being able to laugh in the bedroom is very important. Sex doesn't have to be all serious, hot and heavy, all the time.

We guys fumble around all the time. Unfortunately, you gals don't come w/ instruction manuals. To make it worse, every model is a little different. Model A likes forceful in and out, but Model B likes bump and grind. Other models like different things different times. Thus, the woman's 'down there' is a very dark and mysterious place for men.

I know this is frustrating for you and I can tell you it's frustrating for us. I've been w/ my wife 12 yrs and I still can't sometimes read her. What worked like a charm yesterday is annoying today. Yikes!

So it all comes down to communication. If it isn't working, laugh it off (literally) and tell him to try something different. Sex is supposed to be fun so make it a game and laugh, a lot. And if he does something you like, reward him with a very husky 'Oh yeah, baby, just like that!' or whisper 'Just a little slower' or whatever he needs to do. Feedback is a very useful tool.

I've done that...and to tell the truth...we've laughed PRETTY hard in the bedroom...the one night...he poked me in the eye...with his.....you get my point.
It was funny, and when he looked into my eye to see if I was okay...all he said was "I think you're pregnant"...
well, after the hysterics, I really wanted him. I see him tonight, so I will tell you all how it goes.