Thread: sex and rush doing it outside of home

Anyone have any suggestions (odd ones) for places outside the home for sex ? I'm way into the possible get caught rush and doing it where you shouldn't. Seems a warm months hobby most of the time.

The BF is not really into it, it's a case of he goes along with it because I want him to.

The 2 we did so far that sound the most funny were during a hot air baloon ride and inside a submarine.

Some group in TX made the first private space rocket and in a few years will take passangers on 15-20 minute flights into space, weightless and all. I'd love to do it up there but rides will cost $300,000+.

After doing it on the observation platform of the Empire State Building, other buildings haven't felt like much of a dare.

hmmm, I've done in a closet, in a room when everyone else was watching the movie, in a bed when everyone else was asleep (that one was hard), in the trunk of a car parked on the street (physically difficult... he had a large trunk lol), in the pool at night when there were other people swimming, in the park, by the lake at my in laws lake house, in the car parked on the side of a quiet country road during the day, in a fire truck, in a fire station (a few times on that one). Never done it in the rest room or at the beach... yet

The fire truck (on top of one) sounds neat if I could get permission. Here it is a BIG legal problem if you are in fire or police areas. Caught for sex is OK, arrested for the other violation would be tough. But if any way to do it on top of a fire truck while it was driving with lights and sirens going to a fire, I'd be INSTANT ready. The BF would probably chicken out on that one, but its a REALLY GOOD IDEA

We did the swim pool, in the ocean, scuba diving (didn't go well), vehicle trunk, closet (his mothers while she took a nap after meds, that one scared my BF), small tent with 8 others sleeping (had to lip lock my screamer BF for that), on the beach (cut my butt on broken sea shells), airplane bathroom (after masturbating him at our seats under a blanket), high up in a tree with foam padding for my back (great view), a ladies bathroom where I work (BF was shaking all through it), during a warm all day rain in the city park on the grass, in our seat on a Greyhound public bus (night time), at the top of state park fire tower, at night in a public fountain that was turned off at the beach on New Years Eve, and on the end of an active runway that was landing planes at the local airport during the day. Hopefully neither of our butts is a travel postcard story for a passenger from that one.

Thanks for the suggestions. My happy but sometimes twisted mind is working. I never tell my BF where I've found or want to ahead of time. Part of the rush for me is seeing the bit (sometimes more than a bit) of fear and paranoia on his face when I whisper "Time for me to have you, right now, right here."

yeah, you're not going to get permission unfortunatly, luckily for me that falls under work place. I do know of someone who has done it in the fire truck with lights and sirens going just going up and down the freeway though, obviously I can't say who, where or under what circumstances, they were quiet lucky. You can actually rent old fire trucks for parties and what not, not sure if that'd do for you.

Me and my boyfriend havn't really done the public sex thing, but I love turning him on in public at every opportunity. I think its fun to build the tension outside so that when we hit the bed its something we want really badly.

I think the act of giving in to irrisistable temptation without regard to the risk of being caught is sexy, that heat of the moment need it now passion and wouldn't mind trying it sometime.

But I really do love the discipline act of holding back, being so turned on but waiting. I love to reach behind me and stroke on him while hes snuggling up behind me at a party. To sit on his lap and grind against him, wiggling around enough to wake the area up, when we are in no position to act on it. Telling him what I want to do with him, giving him peeks at what is underneath my clothes before we go out, etc. Its fun stuff and I find when we do that, the sex is so heated later.

I agree Hopeless, your way is another super fun method to drive them nuts. When we go out to hear a band, and even more so travel distance to a major concert, I'm dressed how he wishes I would 24/7 (as long as he was with me).

On those days just about everything I say or whisper is blunt sexual or I put it in other talk topics. I purposely go out of my way to bend over often, give him "the look" and get against him as often as possible. By the time we get home his sexual brain parts are toast and he usually can't remember his own name

It's almost unfair how well I know his number and have him dialed in. But he does get even at times.

He found an adult shop on vacation and bought me a small strap on clit vibrator that was worn strapped on under my panties. It came with a small battery powered remote he could activate and control the speed/intensity. Only fair I do as asked when I do stuff to him.

He went to town playing with that remote at my family reunion, an all day shopping trip (loved to "hit" me when I was in a dressing room), when we were grocery shopping, a lunch with his mother (loving revenge), and a couple other places before it broke (not exactly Sony quality electronics). He looked like a kid whose favorite toy broke on Christmas day. It did wear me out but also made me laugh. He just loved to click it on "high" when I was in the middle of a talking to or asking a question of someone, trying to eat in public, or a "burst" in otherwise compromising situations when I didn't see it coming (no pun intended).

Haha oh man I bet he had fun with that! These are things that make relationships so worth it don't you think? Having a guy control a clit vibrator while your at the store is just not something someone would do with a fling, all these acts take intimacy and trust and closeness that you can really only get in a serious relationship.

I have no idea why more men don't jump at the opportunity to have a girlfriend rather than boring one night stand after another. Some people think having sex with a different body every time is exciting, I think having sex with the same body in new and exciting ways is much more fun.

I so agree, LOL.

Neither of us would ever, EVER actually hurt each other in any way. But when I dress in a way that cranks him or do some other thing that pops him, he has a playful phrase that means "attack me and I want to attack you too" that always comes out when he has that total "glazed eyes" look and is staring at me:

"Please hurt me, I've been a good boy"

I've done some of the things we do with others. But no man has gotten as much or as often from me, or me from him, as we have together. I treasure it and enjoy him daily as he does me (in lots other than sex) since life is short and a race to see how much you can live while God lets you.

I have no doubt he's the love of my life and exercise more than normal protection for him physically since he's had open heart surgery as well as broken his neck and back several times in accidents. I'm protective even though he's not aware (unmanly to him, he sees norm as man take care of women) so he's around for awhile.

I know chances are he won't live long and fully healthy into senior age and so does he, so we like life today and make sure we do EVERY day. And I have every intention of being and will be a total hottie MILF in my 50s for him if he's with me. I won't hesitate to give my "chest bumpers" a lift if they start to head south when I get older, even though he'd never ask. I'll know when. If he's in a wheelchair, all the easier for me to straddle him since I'll always know where he is

And I know he's always looking around for another one of those remote vibrator things every time we travel to a city that might have an adult store.
I'll wear it anytime he wants if found, except on my darn wedding day (he will try).

Originally Posted by Steph33

It did wear me out but also made me laugh. He just loved to click it on "high" when I was in the middle of a talking to or asking a question of someone, trying to eat in public, or a "burst" in otherwise compromising situations when I didn't see it coming (no pun intended).

oooh thats so funny!!!

i love this website and i am sooooo glad i found it!!
im so glad that i can come here ask questions (most othe the time dumb ones) and always get a respond!

thank you everyone!

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

Haha oh man I bet he had fun with that! These are things that make relationships so worth it don't you think? Having a guy control a clit vibrator while your at the store is just not something someone would do with a fling, all these acts take intimacy and trust and closeness that you can really only get in a serious relationship.

I have no idea why more men don't jump at the opportunity to have a girlfriend rather than boring one night stand after another. Some people think having sex with a different body every time is exciting, I think having sex with the same body in new and exciting ways is much more fun.

i totaly agree and i wished i had a boyfriend now!
some guys just think with their penis and not their brain.
cnat wait to meet mr.right