Thread: Questions about erections

It gets much harder before orgasm, but remember its just blood in there. A guys hardness can be based on sexual interest, cardiovascular health, hydration level, and even body position. Some positions naturally facilitate better blood flow to that area. Sometimes, a guys physical conditions change it. Has he been on top for a long time? His muscles need that blood too! Also, alchohol plays a factor, and can be detrimental to hardness.

How hot you are or what you are doing bears just a fraction of the responsibility for how hard a guy is, unless you are making him cum!

Oh, and about the balls. A guys balls tend to tighten up right before he orgasms. If you notice this while you are "taking care" of him, gently tug them down and let them spring back up. Its mind blowing!

When I get my guy hard in the shower he has balls like billiard balls

I started a thread yesterday about (for my guy) the occassional "flesh colored steel rod that performs for hours like a porn star". The "what is that and where did it come from" type. They should be registered as a deadly weapon

When he's all the way small I think it's cute But like most guys he doesn't want me to look at it when it's not "impressive"

Love the look of my BFs penis when its hard (now have a photo of it in my wallet).

And especially love its look when ready to cum so you get the tip/head expansion and swelling.

I even like the in between larger but not fully hard mode. Nice to hold while watching a long movie. But it usually changes due to the massage

lol steph I'm with you! I think its cute when its that long soft ya know... just layin down cuddlein with him holdin it.... He says he thinks I'm the only girl in the world who actually does that lol I'll have to tell him he's wrong!
and i think the hole how hard thing comes from how many times you've done gone that day... how long its been since he was takin care of... and how tore up he is. i think bjs give them that whoa where did that come from thing the best tho

Yeah I was wondering because my guy often goes down a level of hardness when I am giving him oral for a while. I ask him if he wants me to stop and do something else and he just pushes my head down on him so I cant stop. I do tease him a bit and spend 40 minutes or so just pleasuring him with my mouth and tongue but kinda want to know if its me or him just getting a bit bored! he just says don't do anything different but he can be a bit shy about talking about sex!
Welcome a guys thoughts here!

After the first time we had sex, I named the BF's penis "Buddy."

Since then I can drop it in conversation with friends/family or in public (store, food place) as needed.

"When we get home I'm going to talk to Buddy"

"No desert for me, Buddy's having desert with me later"

"Would it be OK if I took Buddy clothes shopping with me so I can get his opinion ?"

"I'll ask Buddy for a massage"

Nobody ever figures it out. I just like to create a pants bulge. Especially if his penis is "out of place" in there and he then has to adjust himself. Cracks me up every time.

He's just as bad. I had a couple weeks once where I just didn't feel like lingerie or dressing up like he likes. Just a brief stress at work effected me phase. I was putting on make-up for work and when I turned around to get up from the table he was standing there. A little picket sign attached to his erection that said "On Strike, Bring Back Stockings and Garter Belts."

I had my best gear back on that night and "negotiated" with the striker