help im a guy suffering in silence - Page 2

girlyguy · 03-14-2009, 10:58 AM

hi WC well im actually 30 and im alittle embarrassed about putting my size on here but i am under 5 and i know what you mean about me having to seperate issues i guess ive kind of been kidding myself that they are linked and i guess with the limited chances ive had i do try extra hard with my hands i will go and take alook at some of these books you suggested and well i can only hope i will become amazing mind you i would settle for half that guess i shouldnt aim to high i just want to feel well normal again and to see a woman happy with me but at least you have given me some hope to there being help out there im so glad i found the courage to come here and in away it has helped to be able to open up so i thank you for that

**WildChild** · 03-14-2009, 11:14 AM

By separate issues I meant that the PE isn't because of your size and your sexual technique is another thing altogether. Your feelings about yourself and your sexuality are all related but the physical aspects are separate. You can learn to pleasure a woman and be a great lover to them!

**acerousme** · 03-14-2009, 12:00 PM

What my friends say is true....

(Hey guys...we have another young one on here, WOOOOO....(Im 20, lol))

These ladies and gents are quite smart, GG.
Seriously, love....dont sweat it!!!
Noe explain your next problem to us, if you dont mind?

girlyguy · 03-14-2009, 12:45 PM

hehe ty ace yeah they really smart and nice lol my next problem urmmmm well i dont want to start admiting to many more problems hehe not on my first day here

girlyguy · 08-03-2009, 10:55 AM

thank you everyone it has helped to be able to open up and to have such great and nice advice thank you all for being understanding it means alot hehe next problem ummmm i have small feet hehe

**miss.sin.t.uh** · 08-03-2009, 03:28 PM

its not about size, its about confidence sweetheart.

girlyguy · 09-29-2009, 08:02 AM

ty miss sin i guess your right but i find it hard as confidence surely comes with what you have i look at other guys that act so confident and cocky around guys and i cant help but feel jealous i know its stupid and im being silly but i cant help it but ty for you kind words

**Miya** · 09-29-2009, 08:14 AM

Definitely don't worry about it GG. Size is really not a huge deal and intimacy has much more to do so. We call come in various shapes and sizes and spend far too much time stressing about it.

Ask most people and you'll find there is something about their bodies they dislike.

Don't worry about the teasing because these would be people who don't really have your best interest at heart or are oblivious to the pain it causes you.

All in all try to be happy with who you are instead of who you think the world wants you to be sweets.

girlyguy · 09-29-2009, 08:20 AM

ty miya it means alot for you to take the time to reply to me, i just wish there were more kind hearted girls and guys out there like so many of you seem to be on here. i do try to be happy and to be confident, i guess i just get scared easily about stuff and the main reason i get made fun of is well im not your stereo typical guy so to speak. i try to get involved with the football and having a beer but its really not me and i struggle ty again so much miya.

**Miya** · 09-29-2009, 08:24 AM

I've had friends who didn't like the football/beer/bar thing and they got chided for it too. It's no big deal really and there are a lot of people in the world who feel the same way (me included) just as there are people who like all that which is good too. Just know that this too shall pass (the being made fun of) and somewhere out there is a woman who can appreciate your sensitivity and find you a real catch.

You never know where she'll be or where you'll meet but that's the beauty of it. Live and love yourself and that will draw those people to you.

08-03-2009, 10:55 AM	#15
girlyguy Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: cambridge uk Posts: 11	awwwww thanks thank you everyone it has helped to be able to open up and to have such great and nice advice thank you all for being understanding it means alot hehe next problem ummmm i have small feet hehe

09-29-2009, 08:14 AM	#18
Miya Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Born in Japan, now in Northern Virginia Posts: 589 Blog Entries: 3	Definitely don't worry about it GG. Size is really not a huge deal and intimacy has much more to do so. We call come in various shapes and sizes and spend far too much time stressing about it. Ask most people and you'll find there is something about their bodies they dislike. Don't worry about the teasing because these would be people who don't really have your best interest at heart or are oblivious to the pain it causes you. All in all try to be happy with who you are instead of who you think the world wants you to be sweets. __________________ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. -Lord Buddha

09-29-2009, 08:24 AM	#20
Miya Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Born in Japan, now in Northern Virginia Posts: 589 Blog Entries: 3	I've had friends who didn't like the football/beer/bar thing and they got chided for it too. It's no big deal really and there are a lot of people in the world who feel the same way (me included) just as there are people who like all that which is good too. Just know that this too shall pass (the being made fun of) and somewhere out there is a woman who can appreciate your sensitivity and find you a real catch. You never know where she'll be or where you'll meet but that's the beauty of it. Live and love yourself and that will draw those people to you. __________________ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. -Lord Buddha

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03-14-2009, 10:58 AM	#11
girlyguy Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: cambridge uk Posts: 11	hi WC well im actually 30 and im alittle embarrassed about putting my size on here but i am under 5 and i know what you mean about me having to seperate issues i guess ive kind of been kidding myself that they are linked and i guess with the limited chances ive had i do try extra hard with my hands i will go and take alook at some of these books you suggested and well i can only hope i will become amazing mind you i would settle for half that guess i shouldnt aim to high i just want to feel well normal again and to see a woman happy with me but at least you have given me some hope to there being help out there im so glad i found the courage to come here and in away it has helped to be able to open up so i thank you for that

03-14-2009, 11:14 AM	#12
WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 6,225 Blog Entries: 5	By separate issues I meant that the PE isn't because of your size and your sexual technique is another thing altogether. Your feelings about yourself and your sexuality are all related but the physical aspects are separate. You can learn to pleasure a woman and be a great lover to them!

03-14-2009, 12:00 PM	#13
acerousme Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: May 2008 Location: In the MIDDLE OF NOWHERE, Canada Posts: 934 Blog Entries: 46	What my friends say is true.... (Hey guys...we have another young one on here, WOOOOO....(Im 20, lol)) These ladies and gents are quite smart, GG. Seriously, love....dont sweat it!!! Noe explain your next problem to us, if you dont mind?

03-14-2009, 12:45 PM	#14
girlyguy Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: cambridge uk Posts: 11	hehe ty ace yeah they really smart and nice lol my next problem urmmmm well i dont want to start admiting to many more problems hehe not on my first day here

08-03-2009, 03:28 PM	#16
miss.sin.t.uh VIP Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 50	its not about size, its about confidence sweetheart.

09-29-2009, 08:02 AM	#17
girlyguy Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: cambridge uk Posts: 11	ty miss sin i guess your right but i find it hard as confidence surely comes with what you have i look at other guys that act so confident and cocky around guys and i cant help but feel jealous i know its stupid and im being silly but i cant help it but ty for you kind words

09-29-2009, 08:20 AM	#19
girlyguy Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: cambridge uk Posts: 11	ty miya it means alot for you to take the time to reply to me, i just wish there were more kind hearted girls and guys out there like so many of you seem to be on here. i do try to be happy and to be confident, i guess i just get scared easily about stuff and the main reason i get made fun of is well im not your stereo typical guy so to speak. i try to get involved with the football and having a beer but its really not me and i struggle ty again so much miya.