Loveshoes

Miya is so right...we are our own worst enemies and with the cruelty that people can show, you definitely don't need to be beating yourself up on top of that.

I dated a gentlement for a while when I was in college. He was a little guy, I am 5'1" and he was 5'3". He was huge in body and soul, but very small in the genital area (just short of 5 and not very large in diameter). He was so nervous the first time we became intimate. He had no reason to worry, he was fantastic, but moreso, I just loved the person he was. That was so much more important. Unfortunately, he was stationed somewhere else and the last thing I heard, he went home in a body bag after Saudi Arabia. That was heartbreaking. I believe that someone would have had a terrific husband. Be happy with who and what you are, you're terrific just the way you are!

There can't be a more beautiful you!

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AlleyWay

G.G. no one is perfect. Rejection is a part of life no matter who you are. As long as you love yourself first someone will love you for who you are. Don't waste your time listening to your friends be the person you know you are and the right person will fall right into your lap.

Miya

A wonderfully succinct comment Loveshoes! So very very true.

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