Thread: help im a guy suffering in silence

Well G.G. I want to ask you about the types of girls you are finding yourself attracted to and dating. The fact that none of them accepted your condition or size without teasing etc, leads one to think you are dating some shallow, superficial girls. So it begs to ask if you are shallow and superficial in your selection method as well?

Also, are you building relationships with girls before getting into bed with them? If a girl has no feelings for you whatsoever and doesn't know the true you, your heart, your mind and has sex with you first- she wont be as understanding with an unsatisfying sexual encounter.

If you base a relationship on the physical and sex, and the sex isn't all that great, sure the relationship is likely to fail. But if you build the relationship and base it on feelings, friendship, trust , caring , having fun and sharing each others interest, you coming quickly will likely not make a girl lose interest. Especially if you are considerate enough to try to please her in other ways: oral, manual etc.

Most women prefer intimacy and having a guy respect and care about them to the size of their penis and how long they can keep it erect. If your penis is remarkably small, if you orgasm remarkably fast, you are going to probably want to study up on other ways to make a woman feel sexually satisfied and there are many many ways.

There are many girls I am sure that would love the chance to date you, would never tease you about your penis size and would be patient with you as you learn to control how quickly you ejaculation - decent, considerate girls... but you have to give those kinds of girls a chance.

Thanks GG Its hard, we all have things about us that nature bestowed upon us that we wish that we could change. Some things we can, other things we learn to live with. Everyone is so much more than that though. Somewhere is a girl sitting there having the same insecurities as you, wishing she could be more like her friends and other girls because she feels her breasts too small, or that they are too big, etc.

I know how important penis size is to the male ego, but to be honest its never been an issue for most of the women I know, and you want to know the only time I've hear a girl make fun of a guys penis? After a bad break up, after he cheated on her, after he did something mean or stupid.. THEN she talks about "oh well , he has a little penis anyway". Funny it never bothered her BEFORE.. and it trully didn't.

Women know how to hit guys where it hurts, and making fun of their sexual prowess is one way to get him. You as a person have so much more to offer, even sexually , than your penis size. As far as coming too quickly that is something that usually gets better with time and experiencing and learning to control how excited you get.

You CAN be as confident as those other guys around you, that is something you can control. And just to reiterate the earlier point - if you are ready to get back into dating, please pick a girl worthy of you - and by that I mean someone that has a heart and feelings and wouldn't hurt anyone on purpose. And then treat her like she is special, because she is , as are you.

When it comes time to for sexual play, ease into the actual intercourse. Maybe the first few times you are intimate, please her in other ways. And on the day you plan to give her your all, please YOURSELF just prior, that usually will make it take longer for you to orgasm. Research some positions that lead to deeper penetration for smaller penises, there are many. Prep her ahead of time, make sure she is good and turned on or has a pre-sex orgasm with other forms of intimacy.

Theres plenty of things you can do with ANY size penis that will make the woman you are with think you are the pleasure king, and then you can walk around and beat your chest with the best of em'