Thread: too much work??

I'm not aware of any mechaism whereby increased intensity during sex should cause this.

Possibly more to do with that his general low-libido is causing him to loose sensitivity during sex, and so he requires more concentrated oral/digital stimulation.

Consider seeing a Dr.

My guy had arteries blocked and that happended often before heart surgery. Possibly strain from being out of shape (lungs, heart rate, blood pressure)

No meaning to cause a panic, just may be a health or respitation issue that exerction is more than he can handle. If he gets pale with he's out of breath that's another symptom.

There is a big difference between breathing heavy and gasping.

It happens to me, don't know if it is unusual. I don't have any known medical problems.

This happens to my partner, but we usually chalk it up to the fact that he is mildly asthmatic. So its mostly an oxygen saturation issue.

If that happens, I tell him to lay down and I hop on top for a while till he's recovered. Just alternate him being on top with you being on top, and you should be golden.

What's his history, age, and fitness level? Overweight? Excercise regularly?
A lot of things could be at play. Does he just lose some hardness or does he go limp? I doubt this is an ED issue. More likely a fitness/age issue.

Sometimes when you gals are laying there and we are between your legs doing the best we can, we get tired and when we get tired, mr. happy can get tired too. A lot us aren't studs in our twenties any more and the ONLY bright side is that we make more money than they do!