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    I searching for my first vibrators, first I asked on some vibrators, but I would also like to ask about jelly dildos. Itīs my first vibrator so I donīt wanīt nothing either very thick or either very thin either. I heard jelly dildos are very soft but I would like some recommendations because I read that some have very strong rubber smells. I would like something that doesnīt have a lot of smell, nothing very chubby or very very veined. Can somebody give me some recommendations on models. And also ask, for a first vibrator what would be better, a jelly vibrator or a jelly dildo? I would appreciate very much if somebody could help with some advices. Thank you very much.
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    Why not go into a shop and see what they have? There is usually a helpful lady working who can offer you some insight and advice. You can see a variety of products and they usually have a supply of batteries so you can see how they work.
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    DON'T GET JELLY ANYTHING.
    you should read up on phalates. they're added to the jelly material in (not only sex) toys and can be harmful to your health. to be on the safe side, be sure to request a toy that is 100% phalate free.

    as for pleasure, i recommend a dual vibrator such as the rabbit. don't go cheap either, otherwise you'll be spending even more money so you can get a GOOD vibe once you've decided the cheap one is just that, cheap.
    good luck and have fun!
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    Hi thank you to everybody for your recommendations, besides the jelly dildos my two options I saw more for a first one are this two:

    Doc Johnson Licorice Stix Player Vibrator

    California Exotics Future Flex Skin Rocket 5.5-Inch Vibe (in blue)

    Can somebody give me any advise on these two, are they secure on the material 100%? I really appreciate very much all of the help you all give me.
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    Hi, I'd also second what WC suggested - go into an adult store and talk to the people working there. I've been looking online for my first vibrator for a few months now and have been frustrated, overwhelmed, and completely lost as to what is good. I finally went into an adult store a week ago and found it very helpful - one of the ladies working there talked to me about the different products and made recommendations based on what I was specifically looking for. I found one there called Decadent Indulgence 2 that I'm going to get online (cheaper) when I get the money for it. It's phalate-free, not too big yet the vibrations seem strong enough, and it has a clitoral stimulator, which is essential for me!

    Anyway the best thing to do is just go into a store and see what the toys actually look like, how they work, feel how strong the vibrations are, see how easy/hard they are to use, etc. Plus you can ask any questions you might have as well to people who are knowledgeable about the products and can help steer you in the right direction.
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    Hi thanks for the information of everybody. About going to a store Iīm kind of asheme and I would never go to one so thatīs why I decided to buy through Internet and ask some advice. Since itīs the first one I would like to get a normal one, soft and flexible, thatīs why I thought about maybe

    Doc Johnson Licorice Stix Player Vibrator or California Exotics Future Flex Skin Rocket 5.5-Inch Vibe (in blue) but I would also need to know about the materials, if they are safe or not since I donīt understand about this. And in case these donīt have safe materials, some vibes like these maybe in other materials, simples and soft and flexible can someone recommend me one? I really appreciate very much all the information and help you are all giving me. Iīm new on this and I want to start with something simple. Thank you and I hope somebody can help me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lilduck View Post
    DON'T GET JELLY ANYTHING.
    you should read up on phalates. they're added to the jelly material in (not only sex) toys and can be harmful to your health. to be on the safe side, be sure to request a toy that is 100% phalate free.

    as for pleasure, i recommend a dual vibrator such as the rabbit. don't go cheap either, otherwise you'll be spending even more money so you can get a GOOD vibe once you've decided the cheap one is just that, cheap.
    good luck and have fun!
    Hi, Iīve been checking the Licorice stix and this it what it says about phalates as you explained me:

    Please let me know if this is what you were telling me and if you think this vibe is safe and secure for the health. Once again thank you very much.
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    you have to know that a vibrator and a dildo are two different things providing different objectives. the first is for clitoral stimulation and the second for penetration. For the first I recommend a simple massager; egg shaped and not too strong, also it plugs in. the battery operated ones don't last very long. Hope this helps.
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    Hi thank you very much for the information. Let me ask you please something more. But vibrators can be used for penetration too right? Itīs my first vibe and I would like something normal for now. So I thought about these:

    Doc Johnson Dial-a-dream #25 that they told me itīs TPR silicone

    and this one

    Doc Johnson Licorice Stix Player Vibrator is phthalate-free TPR

    I would like for the first time something simple like these, what can you tell me about them. Can I use them for penetration too? are the materials safe?

    Please let me know if they are ok for my first vibe or you can recommend me other on this line of vibes? I want something simple but what I do want is to be soft and flexible. Thank you very much for your antention.
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    picking a toy for the first time is a very personal choice. We all prefer different things . Like I prefer dildos to vibs. Do some research look at different websites and like the other girls said go into your local adult store and talk to the staff. They are usually pretty helpful. Just never go against you own judgment, if you think something looks to big or you won't like it.. go with your gut feeling it is usually right.
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