Thread: Blow Job

Just my opinion, but there seems to be a wider range of taste between men then there (generally) is with women. Of course extremes in the bad sense in both genders.

You can try eating something before sex that retains the flavor in your mouth to help counter an unpleasant taste. If the actual swallowing is when the taste gets to you the most you can try a couple options. Washing it down with a glass of water or juice you keep handy if your guy (like most) wants you to swallow what he releases. Downside to that is it being obvious he tastes bad enough you can't take it as a straight "shot."

Second option that many men like as much as you swallowing it is to just keep it in your mouth. After he's done, let him see you push it out from your mouth so it runs down your chin onto your chest. Telling him you love him or love pleasing him while you smear his sperm on your chest with your fingers appeals to a "porn" fantasy many men have. It's messy and requires a shower, but gets you out of swallowing a load of yucky stuff if you just can't do that.

As others said, it's an aquired taste but maybe the above will help if you just never learn to deal with it well (if not actually enjoy it).

Thankfully women have more options to control taste, scent, etc with washes, etc. if they are highly acidic and just to strong in a bad way for a guy to eat them. But good or bad varies on what men like too. In the past I never had anyone say anything either way who gave me oral, I've always been clean and fresh as possible assuming men want "neutral".

The first few times my BF and I had sex I was all kinds of prepared and he loves giving oral for closeness, feel, and a bunch of other reasons. He didn't say anything either.

But the 1st time we made love at the end of a day spent together he went wild compared to previous sex when he went down on me and moaned like crazy with enjoyment for the first time. Afterwards he told me how much more beautiful I tasted and he enjoyed my scent more because I tasted and smelled like pu**y instead of like nothing. He's more aroused by the taste and sent that is normal than eating something neutralized or masked (best I can describe). Not dirty, just the small and taste being natural or more than neutral.

The best advice anyone can give is just to be willing and open to new things, but also be honest with yourself. As a guy, I can tell you that women fall into three categories. First there are the ones who can give head and swallow and it's not an issue for them, it's simply a part of their sexual identity, and the guy just gets to relax and count his blessings, knowing he's got one of those women in his life.

The second type are the ones who can do it but it requires an effort, a deliberate step outside their comfort zone. If that's you, know that there is nothing wrong with this, and feel no shame about it. If you have to work yourself up to giving him the "royal treatment" once a year on his birthday, well, any guy who's worth it will be just as grateful. It's also fun for the guy, knowing if he's on his best behavior or does something extra sweet, you might be in the mood to go the extra mile that night. It's just as erotic, in it's own way. Even more so, when a woman steps into unknown territory, just because, you know, she actually loves the guy.

The third type won't do it at all, and there are many reasons for this, no need to go into all of it. Like I said, just be honest with yourself. Everything else flows from that.

Good luck.