Thread: OK I am here to find out the truth

We really don't use 1337 on WH ... there are a lot of members who don't/can't read it. Please stick to conventional communication in the "serious" topics.
While this isn't necessarily the case with you, Average Man, there are women out there who would breathe a sigh of relief at having a partner your size. Just as men are differently sized, so are women. What is small to one is average to another.
Another thing you can encourage is that your wife perform kegel exercises. This will tighten her up (and has nice health benefits; google them!) You can do them too.
There have been quite a few topics about this exact same issue over the years. You can use the search option to try to find them. Sometimes posters who've come and gone can have very interesting perspectives.

Originally Posted by Little

We really don't use 1337 on WH ... there are a lot of members who don't/can't read it. Please stick to conventional communication in the "serious" topics.
While this isn't necessarily the case with you, Average Man, there are women out there who would breathe a sigh of relief at having a partner your size. Just as men are differently sized, so are women. What is small to one is average to another.
Another thing you can encourage is that your wife perform kegel exercises. This will tighten her up (and has nice health benefits; google them!) You can do them too.
There have been quite a few topics about this exact same issue over the years. You can use the search option to try to find them. Sometimes posters who've come and gone can have very interesting perspectives.

I am sorry. I am so used to using 1337 on other boards and in text messages, I will control my habit.

Ok.. but I don't know what you mean by communicating conventionally??

That is good to hear about my size. It's tough being little when men all want and need to be big.
My wife is very very tight so I am good to go there. I'm just afraid for some reason one day she might have sex with a guy that has a bigger one than me and leave me because of it. All men who are small and even average or above average sometimes feel like this. There is something called Small Penis Syndrome and it is real and it is painful especially to someone who is small such as myself.

I meant Skelly's lolzomgwtfbbq Don't sweat it, I know WH has different rules than many other forums. Just check them out and watch what the seasoned posters do and you should be fine.
If your wife "fits" you, then chances are she would not enjoy a much bigger man. Personally, "medical average" for me feels like red-light-alarm "AT CAPACITY" going off. If I'm with a new man, I breathe a sigh of relief if he's "small," and get very uptight (no pun intended ...) if I find he's larger than I expected.
Everyone is anxious about some part of their body, but with a loving partner we should all find that anxiety unfounded.

EDIT: We do NOT allow double or triple posting in order to build up post count, under any circumstances. Try the Lounge, there are games to play there without being spammy.

Neither do we allow the promotion of other websites. Go read the rules.
Medical average is something like 5-6", as far as I've heard. But that number could be skewed for many reasons and doesn't take into account the factor of girth, which it seems most people don't talk about.
I have had a guy who was too large. It was extremely uncomfortable.

Originally Posted by Little

Neither do we allow the promotion of other websites. Go read the rules.
Medical average is something like 5-6", as far as I've heard. But that number could be skewed for many reasons and doesn't take into account the factor of girth, which it seems most people don't talk about.
I have had a guy who was too large. It was extremely uncomfortable.

I seem to be breaking all the rules with you around
What happens or what happens physically to you that make women like girth?

As far as penis size....it's probably similar to how men view breast size.... a preference. I have had bad sex with a guy who's 8"....I've had bad sex with a guy who was prob 4 or 5 inches. After sex w him I got it in my head it was because he was too small...but really, it just wasnt good sex regardless. However, the best sex I've had was with a man who was average. It was something about how he was made that just hit the right spots every time.

And just because of your size, you shouldnt be limited to only two positions. Search "Sex101" on yahoo....it has every sex position known to man, how to do it, and what it does.
As for me...I prefer being on top...perfect g-spot position for me.

My toy is a gspot stimulator....its 3 1/2 inches in length and girth. It also has a clitoral stimulator. Love it.

You should take your own advice (on the breast size thread). Sounds like you've spent many years being hard on yourself over something you simply can't change. There's beauty in self acceptance. At times I've wished my breasts were bigger...wished I didn't have some cellulite the backs of my legs....wished this and wished that. But at the end of the day...I'm me...take it or leave it. Your wife loves you..just the way you are. Do you ever fantisize about having a woman different than your wife? If so...there are prob times she has fantisized about being with a man different than you.....but it doesn't mean she's not perfectly happy with what she has.

My suggestion, TRY new things....try new positions....spice it up a bit. And if your wife is having orgasms.....thank your lucky stars because ALOT of women don't.

I'm limited to positions because of my size. I can only penetrate using two positions or prefer two positions. My wife likes two positions and thats what we do. She has a bad back and sometimes I have to lie on my side while she stays in missionary position. Gosh, I never had bad sex.What is it like? I never heard of a guy having bad sex. That's a thought you girls should write down and it being the woman's fault. The motion of the ocean usually is created by the guy.He is responsible for what motion the ocean has.I will take responsibility for that statement.

Originally Posted by Beautiful Disaster

As far as penis size....it's probably similar to how men view breast size.... a preference. I have had bad sex with a guy who's 8"....I've had bad sex with a guy who was prob 4 or 5 inches. After sex w him I got it in my head it was because he was too small...but really, it just wasnt good sex regardless. However, the best sex I've had was with a man who was average. It was something about how he was made that just hit the right spots every time.

And just because of your size, you shouldnt be limited to only two positions. Search "Sex101" on yahoo....it has every sex position known to man, how to do it, and what it does.
As for me...I prefer being on top...perfect g-spot position for me.

My toy is a gspot stimulator....its 3 1/2 inches in length and girth. It also has a clitoral stimulator. Love it.

You should take your own advice (on the breast size thread). Sounds like you've spent many years being hard on yourself over something you simply can't change. There's beauty in self acceptance. At times I've wished my breasts were bigger...wished I didn't have some cellulite the backs of my legs....wished this and wished that. But at the end of the day...I'm me...take it or leave it. Your wife loves you..just the way you are. Do you ever fantisize about having a woman different than your wife? If so...there are prob times she has fantisized about being with a man different than you.....but it doesn't mean she's not perfectly happy with what she has.

My suggestion, TRY new things....try new positions....spice it up a bit. And if your wife is having orgasms.....thank your lucky stars because ALOT of women don't.

Maybe the moderator would forgive this double post.I'm addicted to editors.
I have a question if you have a 3.5 X 3.5 stimulator, then why wouldn't my 4x4 work on you. Just curious.
My wife fantasized about me... bless her heart. My mind goes blank really.
As far as penis size and a man's ego,we seem to have an instinct to want to be big. I guess we are born with that desire or we brainwash each other.But it sure is weird hearing something that is true most of the time and we just can't comprehend it.
My wife has great orgasms..no g-spot though. I have been working on all kinds of new stuff during the past year. I started getting down about my penis size so I ended up turning it into a positive thing. I don't even need my penis anymore to make my wife satisfied. And it is fun reading about things and trying them and find out that the things work. It's just strange to know that if you do something like that then the woman will like this...
We just celebrated 20 years of knowing each other. My penis insecurities seem to have sparked us into feeling like we are just like we were when we first met. What a kewl thing.

Thank you moderators for forgiving me this one double post!