female orgasm and ejaculation... so confused

**stacey18** · 03-27-2009 06:31 AM

Hey, i am new to this website so not too sure if im puttin this in the rite place.... basically i am soooo confused with female orgasms it all started when my b.f of 3 and a half years said he saw girls "squirting" when watchin porn and he asked me to do it.. now i had a look n thought they were peein! ive had a clitoral orgasm many times and that produces a small amount of liquid but does not squirt whatso ever and these women seriously were squirting loads like pee. So i researched this and apparently when they squirt like that its because its a g spot orgasm not clitoral which is understandable. but what i dont understand is how people say they get them... people say on forums they get them by being licked out and on the porn i watched theres no penetration just men rubbing the clits fast then they squirt... so if nothings touching the g spot thats got to a clitoral orgasm hasnt it?>>:S so can you squirt by having a clitoral orgasm? also many people were sayin they can squirt but not orgasm i have orgasmed many times but i like i said never squirted ... any one know whether girls really do squirt and how? because it looked too much i watched a few on this porn site and its much more than men squirt (well my partner anyway )... sorry its long ...just really confused dont wana be missing out!!

**rcoreyus** · 03-27-2009 09:25 AM

A lot of the things in porn movies are fake and / or special effects. I wouldn't try to lean about real sex from them any more the I would try to learn self-defence from Saturday night wrestling. I don't think there is anything wrong with porn (or wrestling for that matter), but I wouldn't take it at all seriously.

**Hopeless Dork** · 03-27-2009 12:15 PM

I don't understand the 'looks like pee' ejaculation in porn either. I guess it happens for women differently. I squirt when I orgasm when I am having direct gspot stimulation but its never looking like pee, its creamy, whitish clearish like a weak version of a guys, like half a teaspoon and silky.

Maybe there are different kinds of squirting orgasms or maybe some of those women are just peeing ...it is porn after all!!

**skipper** · 03-27-2009 01:59 PM

Hopeless, when you do this, is it a really strong orgasm and do you know the source of the fluid? Is it coming out your urethea or your p*ssy?

We've never acheived the squirt although we've had fun trying. If my wife is really turned on, she will ooze a creamy semen like fluid when she comes, but there is not a squirt. I'm sure this is her natural lube.

The squirts I've seen on the 'net are generally a clear liquid (copius amounts) and the women seem to be consumed in really powerful orgasmic spasms. A friend of ours occasionally squirts. She doesn't know it's going to happen until it happens and she reports a lot of liquid and said the first time it happened she thought she peed, but it wasn't pee.

**WildChild** · 03-27-2009 02:50 PM

Stacey, it sounds like you enjoy sex and you can orgasm so you are way ahead of many women. By all means keeps experimenting and trying new things but Rcoreyus is right, don't make porn your guideline - it's designed for one purpose really - jack off material for men, it's not educational documentry material. LOL

By all accounts some women do really squirt but you knows what percent that may be? I sometimes get things pretty darn wet but certainly don't send it streaming out like a hose. Have fun, enjoy the effort but don't get too hung up it all.

**sallyskellington** · 03-30-2009 08:51 AM

I have always wanted to achieve this but never have

Keep in mind much of what you see in porn is camera tricks and fake so don;t use porn as your go to guide

**Hopeless Dork** · 03-30-2009 09:05 AM

Hi skipper, it is coming from my urethra. I have lubrication in my vagina as I become turned on and even more so after I come but when I am stimulating my gspot with a finger and have and intense orgasm and push through it.. a little tiny squirt from my urethra. I tried pushing down on orgasms where I am only stimulating my clitoris and don't have the same result, no result basically. It only happens when I am pushing (intensly) on the inside directly atop my gspot.

It projects depending on how I am positioned, it is a little less than a tspoon, whitish/clear and silky.. It feels, looks, smells and tastes a lot different than my boyfriends ejaculate. Its mild, almost sweet and neutral smelling, nothing really to its taste, a touch sweet.

**skipper** · 03-30-2009 01:31 PM

HD, 1) when you say you 'push through it' does that mean you push like you are trying to pee or something else (what then?) 2) Is your g spot finger simply pressing firmly against the uretheal area (g spot) or are you using a motion? Lastly 3) Is there a position that seems to make this more likely to happen like on your back or on your tummy? Thanks.

**Hopeless Dork** · 03-30-2009 01:49 PM

Yes, sort of, its a push like a reverse kegal - my body just had the urge to do that and I followed it. I guess it is kind of the same push you give when you innitiate trying to pee. Just as I am orgasming and through it, pushing. I dont feel the same urge to do that when I am only rubbing my clitoris - but for experimentation I tried pushing during a clitoral orgasm and nothing happend at all.

For me its just hooking my finger about an inch and a half inside, theres a little area that gets swollen a bit when I am aroused and I push on the area just right behind that - a little shallow spot behind the swell. I stroke it and rub it to tease it but when I am trying to "satisfy" the area I press HARD. To me it almost feels like I am pushing on the back side of my urethra with my direction, or aiming for the underside of my clitoris. It seems I can't hurt the area at all when I am turned on I press it as hard and strong as I can and the harder I push on it the better it feels.

For some reason pushing hard on that one little area that is so close to the opening of my vagina gives off the sensation like I am totally full - packed to capacity and satisfied.

**skipper** · 03-31-2009 10:37 AM

Thanks HD. I've been concentrating on the area a little deeper than where you are talking about where the tissue is rougher. As my wife becomes extremely aroused, I can feel the uretheal sponge (not sure that's a technicial term) start to swell from deeper inside her and start pushing against my finger. From what I have read, this is the female prostate filling w/ fluid. When I feel that, I know she is very close to an orgasm. I've tried massaging that swollen area but it's too deep for me to reach. A couple of times she has gotten the sensation of needing to pee but she instinctively clamps it off. She can't seem push through it and she is always concerned about peeing on me even tho we have a towel handy.

Oh, she seems to get closer to the sensation after she has had 3 or 4 orgasms.

Ah well, we will keep trying. It's fun. I'll move my focus a little shallower and see what happens. Thanks for sharing.

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