Thread: Sex on top the best way to reach the big "O"???

My guy can only cum in missionary if inside me, but enjoys having me and the view from lots of other ways. He's had heart surgery and though fine, his doctor was aware from me that his drive is high and he goes at it a lot longer during sex than much younger men I've been with. He was told to let me spend time in the saddle as a rest and to reduce heart strain. I get off, he gets a view, and his heart get a break until he can't stand it and has to lift me off to jump me.

It's a matter of angle, size of your guy, force one of you can take, as far as feeling or how fast/intense you cum. I get off the best doggy style. It does zero for my sweetie but he rides like the actor in "Hildalago" until I get to the finish line.

But my man is a bit easier to control than most. He calls it tell him what I want at that moment so he can help get me off. True, but he loves to be told what to do just because he likes me in control and giving him orders (a fact he'd deny). We always try to go for at least 1 mutual laugh during sex. One day last week he came in to dress after showering and I was on my hands and knees on the bed. He loves westerns so I did a John Wayne imitation and said "Hey partner, how 'bout taken a ride once around the coral." We never did get it done, he kept laughing and eventually fell of the bed.

I find woman on top to be different depending on the guy. This was a favorite for me and my ex. I loved how he'd let me take all control. And the best part was, if I got tired, I could stay on top but lean down over him so I was resting on my arms in a sort of push up position and he'd take ahold of my hips and thurst in and out of me. It was always so good to take turns to pleasure the other.
With one guy though, I wasn't enjoying his style at all, so when I through him down and climbed on top to take the control, it was like he didn't understand and still wanted to thrust and pound me from underneath, which was the last thing I wanted him to do. I almost said, "Hold still!!!" I don't think he understood that when a woman gets that chance to tower over a man like that, it means WE want to dominate. And not only that, let our lovers have a break so we can make it special for them too.

You don't have to bounce on them either. I find that when I sit on them and let them go in all the way, and rock or sway my hips and grind against their bodies, we both orgasm at the same time, and that right there is the ultimate orgasm!

Originally Posted by WildChild

I don't really buy into the belief that only a few woman are able to cum during intercourse. I think nearly all could with the right rethinking and retraining. Believeing that it can never happen will certainly ensure that it won't. Stressing over it will also ensure that it won't. Since we aren't likely to have an overnight, major worldwide, total revamping of the nasty attitude there has been for about 5000 years toward women's sexuality, it has to happen one woman at a time. If a woman can orgasm in any manner, that's a light year or two ahead of not cumming at all.
Personally, during intercourse if the light of my life, tells me to cum, he'll say something really clever and romantic like, "cum! now!" I do. Actually I do more so, since I would have been pretty much all along. Technique is important, how you touch and move are important, what's going on in your head trumps it all.

Sorry, totally disagree. I can't through intercourse alone, and I think many women are this way. It's not a matter of having a positive attitude or not, it's how our bodies are built.

I find it better in him on top of me or in a semi sitting position ... I had a amazing time not to long ago if you want more details so that you can try ...let me know

I honestly can't think of any position we haven't at least tried, some didn't work well as we are different heights. I've been given oral sex from every angle or position possible and I don't think there is a "best" any position for me, just what I feel like at the moment. He's easier to please, he'd always pick being on his back and me lowering myself on him to give me oral. Admit that seems to happen most often, so it a type of "on top" and I never fail to get off multiple times.