tata1987

Ok well im 22 years old and iv been sexually active since i was like 17 and well iv never had an orgasm. I know i can how should i say "Cum" when i play with myself but when im with my man i just dont seem to and we do all that forplay and it just dont seem to work. I have been consentrating on this every time we have sex to see if something will happen and never nothing When i used to be with my ex boyfriend i would get the feeling like that i have to pee and at first i just told him to switch positions but after a few times of this i just let it happen and it felt like i peed and it made a not small but not big wet spot on the sheets and i jus made him stop. I was embaressd. Thats like the only feeling i get during sex, the have to pee feeling. So my questions are do you think that feeling is related to me having an orgasm? and Is there a differece between cumming and an orgasm?