Thread: Ladies: question about who initiates sex

Wow you girls on here are hot lol!

OK, I feel better now, a lot of women initiate sex, I thought I was a freak LOL

Lately i have initiate sex and i have to tell you that i find my hubby performs 100% better when i do then when i dont.... I have found that my and the hubby's sexlife is becomming more off the wall when i initiate it .. I guess he gets turned on more when i do ....

We were both working on our computers last night in different areas of the apartment, him for about 8 hours straight. I e-mailed him a close up shot with our digital camera of my legs spread and no panties with the caption "Needs your attention NOW." He tripped and almost fell running to my computer area. It doesn't take much to get him going but surprise works 100% of the time. Had to get in his PC and delete it today or it would be his wallpaper for a month (it was already there). My nieces visiting 2 days next week and no doubt they'd have seen it.

Now, my wife initiates sex almost exclusively. but this is years into a relationship, after a child and through several issues. Basically, I gave up on initiating sex because the odds were poor for success. All too often there too many subtle(or not so subtle) signals that just would irritate me or turn me off.

So I pretty much let my wife initiate sex- well at least to the point of crawling in bed without pajamas. Bed without pajamas tends to lead to sex for the most part.