Hi mates, I stay in India... My age is 23 and I have recently found my life-partner... The problem is that, I feel extreme pain during intercourse - my boyfriend is also very much worried about this... I know that this will be automatically reduced day by day - but for the initial days, can anybody help me out???

Please suggest me a good medicine (drug) (available in INDIA) which acts as a pain-killer during sexual intercourse

plz suggest me a name.....

Are you using any kind of lubricant? I am naturally dry down there and my body doesn't produce very much lube of it's own so i have to help it out and if i don't it is painful for both of us. i don't know of any medicine that would help, but maybe some K-Y jelly or astroglide. Really any water based feminan lubricant will help out tramendously. good luck

lol I have been having sex for about two years now. I lost it to my boyfriend and it hurt like a mother! lol But it slowly got better. But it STILL hurts everytime and depending on how .."hard" it hurts more or less...but my boyfriend is..pretty big maybe your friend is too...possibly the problem. Goodluck

I get pain as well. I've been told the vagina can grow longer as it is aroused. So if he's charging in without exciting you first he may be rubbing against your cervix. There is also a condition called vaginitis (I think that's it). It's something we women create in our heads. Once it hurts a few times we prepare our selves for sex mentally by thinking it's going to hurt, so then it does. It's a hard circle to get out of. I think I'm stuck in that myself. The best hope for you and me if thats the case is geeting him to do extra work(forplay) and get yourself ready for the pleasure. Masterbation also helps. Getting your body more recognized with orgasms.

Hi.Have you been for a pap smear or pelvic exam recently?I am just asking because I just recently started hurting during intercourse(my cervix and uterus)and then some other problems started plus I had cervical cancer and carsonoma leision in 2003 so my doctor sceduled an ultra sound to check for tumors in my uterus.You might need to be checked by your doctor just to be safe.