Hello everyone!! I am new with this, and im not exaclty sure if im posting this correctly. Anywho, i just hope some of you ladies can shine some light on me. Ok, so here it goes. Im 21 and just recenlty became sexually active. I know it can take awhile for it to start feeling pleasureable, but I really dont like it...like at all !! Its not that im not sexual, i am. I own a vibrator, but for some reason i cant reach that level of excitment with by my boyfriend as i do with my toy. I like him and all, im very attracted to him but i honestly have sex for him....because i know hes a guy and has his needs. And the times we have done it, its just felt like a chore. I know hes kinda weirded out about my whole situation since the majority of 21year olds arent exactly prude. Do you girls have any advice for me? Maybe some of you have dealt with this before. Is it possible to simply not like sex?

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when i got married i didn't like sex guess i wasn't ready it's because i've never had sex before marriage that must of caused it when your nice and ready for sex ask your boyfriend to do a foreplay before he has sex with ya some of us women love having our clit licked and have an orgsam every woman is diff to each and their own.

Sex is an 'acquired' taste. Most people, doped up with
Hollywood and other ****, assume they are at fault
because they aren't having the multi-orgasm, or it
doesn't feel like more than the insertion of a warm speculum.

There are ways to get you excited so that you'll
be right there on the edge, and the insertion doesn't
kill the mood...

but...

Isn't there a guy in this bed?
Doesn't he notice like...you aren't
enjoying this?

It seems to me, a lot of men could be on a bed
with a blow up doll for all they notice...

true, very true!!!

You might try initiating a sexual encounter with your partner. Try different positions or variations. Take a shower with him soaping each other up can be fun. Let him know what you like him to do to get you in the mood. Be spontaneous and attack him sexually. Make it fun and dont fail to communicate. My husband and I have 29 years together.
Kellygirl

can u help me?