Thread: lube & condoms for women's pleasure

Personally don't care for the warming or tingle types used internally.

None of them did anything for my wife.However a little dab of Tiger Balm on her clitoral hood is magic!Just be careful,to much can burn like fire.

Any product that claims to produce a "warming effect" is probably not healthy. In particular if a massage oil claims to be warming, it might have oil of clove in it, and you do *not* want that inside you.

I think it's an urban myth. In all my personal experiences I've never heard a woman confess that any product enhanced their orgasm, other than a plain old vibrator. I'm referring to things like "French Ticklers" and related products. I think the idea of such products is more interesting than the thing itself.

Originally Posted by Richard S

Any product that claims to produce a "warming effect" is probably not healthy. In particular if a massage oil claims to be warming, it might have oil of clove in it, and you do *not* want that inside you.

I think it's an urban myth. In all my personal experiences I've never heard a woman confess that any product enhanced their orgasm, other than a plain old vibrator. I'm referring to things like "French Ticklers" and related products. I think the idea of such products is more interesting than the thing itself.

Well think again.Because Tiger Balm does does enhance my wifes orgasm!

Any creams added to the clitoris for enhanced pleasure are based off of menthol and a substance called L-Arginine. In simple terms, its minty and dilates the blood vessels. The mint causes the tingle which many women seem to enjoy but not all women will respond the same. Tiger balm may pack too great of a punch for some women though lol. I would stay away from oils/creams that produce the heating sensation unless they are solely used for massage or joint pain.

The heating sensation is exactly what makes Tiger Balmwork for my wife.But yes it can be to intense for some people.

We bought one of those "Her Pleasure" packs of condoms and it came with 3 different types. Ribbed, Bumpy, and one with a sort of nub on the end of the condom. We tried all of them of course, and never will again lol. The bumpy one was the worst, it actually felt prickly to the touch, and inside it just felt like I was being poked by spikes. The one with the nub at the end was boring, nothing fancy about it. Ribbed one though was probably the best out of the three, even though it wasn't as pleasurable as I was hoping it would be. Maybe some women would like the feeling of each one but the only way to find out is to at least give them a try.

i've never tried the bumpy ones, but i like the ribbed condoms - they're much better for me than regular ones.

i would NOT use menthol flavored condoms - a friend and I were given some at a planned parenthood fundraiser and she and her boyfriend had to stop in the middle of sex because it burnt so much! luckily I hadn't used mine yet