Thread: not turned on

If you like him, the worst thing you can do to to yourself is not tell him it's always been difficult for you to reach orgasm. Letting him in on what's happening will allow you to enlist his help in making it better. Right now he probably has no idea what's wrong but is sure that whatever it is, it's his fault. A lot of guys don't know the extent to which different women have different needs.

Here are some things I think might help:

- Learn your anatomy... G-spot, A-spot, and more
- Build a strength base with kegels
- Stimulate yourself when he's not around: even if you don't cum, the increased blood flow to the genitals ups your chances of cumming next time you're stimulated
- Take things slow until you want more... when you're learning, you have to go at your pace, not his
- Take control during sex and keep yourself stimulated with your hands
- Ask him if he has any ideas. He just might!
- Kiss him. Your lips are a powerful erogenous zone.
- Instead of being hung up on not being able to orgasm, enjoy what you have for what it is.

and above all:

- If it feels good, do it.

Wild, you made my day! I'll educate myself, I'm placing some orders right now [/B]