Thread: I just don't know what to do anymore with him...

Hello everyone, So recently I began seeing a guy in my neighborhood and the whole situation is making me SO frustrated.

My problem is, he seems VERY reluctant to get physical with me. We have frequently been hanging out and making out, but beyond that he gets very nervous. I have openly expressed and attempted to move forward sexually with him but he gets strange.

At first, I thought he wasn't interested in me but he continues to ask me to hang out. Clearly,he likes kissing, but he seems so afraid to even move his hands from my waist. WHAT should I do to move things forward? Honestly, I would love to go down on him but he even seems nervous about that. I tried talking to him about it all but he just didn't know what to say.

I am trying to be patient, but we are over 20 years old and I just don't know what to do. I am not sure if I can handle this man being a "virgin" in every sense. I myself am a virgin sexually, but that doesn't mean that I don't want to feel pleasure in other ways (through oral etc). In fact, I would love to have sex with him soon. BUT he is so reluctant, as I said.

Please give me some advise ladies, I just feel so sexually frustrated! How can I make this easy without him feeling nervous!?

1. maybe he's incapable of reading body language. Go ahead and ask "Would you like to go to the bedroom and have sex?"

2. maybe he has STI/STD and can't bring himself to tell you, but also can't call it quits either.

I don't think its an STI problem, I feel like maybe I intimidate him... Im just not sure. Maybe he is afraid that I am more expirienced than him. How can I ease him into this! Its like, he is so stiff with me (not literally lol) - What I mean is, he hold my waist and THATS IT! He is afraid to touch me even though I move his hands to where I want him to touch me. He just takes them away.

How can I ease him into this?

Okay, I will give that I try. Hopefully he takes to it and will get more comfortable with me