pain for first couple thrusts of sex

pvsweety09 · 06-05-2009, 11:41 PM

me and my boyfriend have been datin for 8 months now and didnt have sex until 4 months into the relationship, but now the last month or so i have expereinced a sharp pain when we first start to have sex but then it goes away after about a minute. we've used lubricants which have helped a little but the pain is still severe, any idea? thanks!

**x.st.angel.x** · 06-06-2009, 12:31 AM

usually for my personally the first 30 seconds or so hurts just because my body hasnt adjusted quick enough then the pain goes away....its not severe though so im not sure if its the same thing....how bad is the pain?

pvsweety09 · 06-06-2009, 06:02 PM

its usually a sharp pain that makes me wince and increases the father he goes in. sometimes it lasts longer than other times too

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 06-06-2009, 06:10 PM

You could have a tilted cervix, it is common in women and can simply go away by itself.

Try different positions that aren't so deep in penetration to determine if this is the problem.

CW

**ItsASecret** · 06-06-2009, 06:11 PM

I get that as well. Your body is just getting used to the stretching because your vagina is naturally not stretched at all times of the day (and shouldn't be so to prevent infections). Just ask him to put it in maybe an inch, then in and out a few times till that feels okay, from there have him push more in and repeat the process until you no longer feel any discomfort. Rushing into things can actually tear stuff up which is anything but awesome.

**WildChild** · 06-06-2009, 06:52 PM

If you are fully aroused the vagina will respond and it shouldn't be a problem. I think CW is more likely on the right track. Strengthening the pc muscle (kegels) and ab exersizes may very well resolve this. Try a different angle of entry. How about you on your side, lower leg extended, upper leg bent, him on his knees between your legs?

**golden_nemesis** · 06-07-2009, 11:53 AM

Also, how often do you have sex? Whenever I haven't had sex for a while, it can be a bit painful and I will end up sore. If you have sex several times a week, this is probably not the right explanation, but maybe if you have sex once a week or less it might make sense.

06-05-2009, 11:41 PM	#1
pvsweety09 Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 2	pain for first couple thrusts of sex me and my boyfriend have been datin for 8 months now and didnt have sex until 4 months into the relationship, but now the last month or so i have expereinced a sharp pain when we first start to have sex but then it goes away after about a minute. we've used lubricants which have helped a little but the pain is still severe, any idea? thanks!

06-06-2009, 12:31 AM	#2
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CHANDLERS WISH WH Head Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 12,627 Blog Entries: 8	You could have a tilted cervix, it is common in women and can simply go away by itself. Try different positions that aren't so deep in penetration to determine if this is the problem. CW __________________ Women are Angels And when someone breaks our wings.... We simply continue to fly.........on a broomstick... We are flexible like that .... White Witch. Register! \| Rules/FAQ \| Contact Mod

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06-06-2009, 06:02 PM	#3
pvsweety09 Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 2	its usually a sharp pain that makes me wince and increases the father he goes in. sometimes it lasts longer than other times too

06-06-2009, 06:11 PM	#5
ItsASecret Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 602 Blog Entries: 2	I get that as well. Your body is just getting used to the stretching because your vagina is naturally not stretched at all times of the day (and shouldn't be so to prevent infections). Just ask him to put it in maybe an inch, then in and out a few times till that feels okay, from there have him push more in and repeat the process until you no longer feel any discomfort. Rushing into things can actually tear stuff up which is anything but awesome.

06-06-2009, 06:52 PM	#6
WildChild WH Moderator Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 8,646 Blog Entries: 6	If you are fully aroused the vagina will respond and it shouldn't be a problem. I think CW is more likely on the right track. Strengthening the pc muscle (kegels) and ab exersizes may very well resolve this. Try a different angle of entry. How about you on your side, lower leg extended, upper leg bent, him on his knees between your legs?

06-07-2009, 11:53 AM	#7
golden_nemesis Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 127	Also, how often do you have sex? Whenever I haven't had sex for a while, it can be a bit painful and I will end up sore. If you have sex several times a week, this is probably not the right explanation, but maybe if you have sex once a week or less it might make sense.