looking for a womens opinion

**Lovin Every minute** · 06-10-2009 08:41 AM

If really hairy..trimmed. My ex shaved once for me...real turn off and the new growth was horrible!

**SFDad** · 06-10-2009 11:18 AM

Old school here- my sexually adventurous days were before shaving became more common. While the idea of a shaved woman is mildly titillating in thought, I have always loved women's 'fur'. I realize that there are men out there now who have experienced it different, but to me, the shaved look seems oddly prepubescent. I also love how my wife's hair down there captures her unique smell. And she gobbles me up with all my hairy splendor.

**happy ending** · 06-10-2009 09:55 PM

thats funny SFdad, our local beautician wont do a full brazilian because she says only an absolute wierdo would want one, maybe its a cultural thing? aussies are more hairy!

**Inmydreams** · 06-10-2009 11:07 PM

me like a hairy man, lol! Seriously, I don't think women care anywhere as much as guys about this. I think men look best just natural anyway. It sucks being a woman and always having to worry about shaving everything, but even though it sucks I do prefer myself smooth as a baby's bottom lol.

**Steph33** · 06-11-2009 03:29 AM

Originally Posted by insecuresex

are you girls serious??? some guys like fur on girls? lol...wow I guess i m watching way tooo much porn and getting unreaslistic image of real body image and therefore really really bad body image I have...ughh

My guy thinks a shaved female looks like a child and the look is perverted. He'd rather eat me than have intercourse if he could only pick 1, but if I shaved totally I know he wouldn't touch me. He thinks shaved is gross and makes a female look like "not a woman" (his words). Part of it is being wet is held more and he likes that against his face during oral. So I'm trimmed but all there, it's not an out of control hedge row.

**Hopeless Dork** · 06-11-2009 07:45 AM

Originally Posted by insecuresex

are you girls serious??? some guys like fur on girls? lol...wow I guess i m watching way tooo much porn and getting unreaslistic image of real body image and therefore really really bad body image I have...ughh

Its good that you recognize that. I don't think you have to be a porn star to shave, I personally do it because I like the way it feels to touch it that way. But still good that you realize sooner than later that porn is fake, photo's are retouched, women with stubble get it cleaned off in photoshop along with any discolorations, camera filters are used on live film etc.

Your comment is exactly why most women have a problem with porn: being held to the unrealistic standards of camera magic. Having you put these strangers on a pedestal for perfection when even they are not perfect.

There are many men that prefer it hairy, as steph mentions, because some hair there reminds they are with a woman instead of a girl. But I agree that shaving has become the standard vs not shaving over the last several years. I'd look for a surge in hairier porn soon as guys I always want the opposite of what they get use to seeing every day.

**jeffswifemichelle** · 06-11-2009 09:11 PM

I want my man completely shaven. I love rubbing his soft area when it's freshly shaven.

**erelx2** · 06-12-2009 03:04 PM

I think most women expect it to be natural down there. It'd be weird if it had been trimmed or styled..

**Hopeless Dork** · 06-12-2009 03:12 PM

My man is groomed and I have to say... I like it a lot. I'd like him any which way because he is fantastic

but I've never been with man so clean and well taken care of in that area, I absolutely love giving him oral because I know everything is going to smell and taste fresh and clean, no huge extra long pubes poking me in the eye!