Thread: increased sex drive in 40s

There is nothing wrong with that my pet, dont think you have a problem, just enjoy yourself - and him! Mmmmmmm

When I turned 40, my sex drive almost dried up. I was a bit overweight and didn't feel good about myself. I friend said she had started to work out at the Y and asked if I wanted to join her. I lost 20 lbs and started to feel good about myself again. The sex drive came back with a vengence. Hubby likes it just fine, but we do find that we enjoy slow sex much more these days, but once in a while, a quicky doggy style is GREAT!

Sarah

Originally Posted by chinadoll

lizzy-I'm in the same boat, 39 going on 40 and horny all the time. Great observation about feeling good about yourself, you hit it on the nail, at least it was for me. And Wildchild, you are my juicy hero!

Chinadoll and Lizzy I hear you both, its been a year since Ive had sex, I jsut turned 40 a month ago, and Im like horny all the time now. At first I thought I was just going crazy becauase its been a while and I have this young man thats likes to flirt with me so I thought I was just horney (well I am, but this is different I take like I dont know how many showers just to tone my sex drive down). But since reading this forum I see that Im not going crazy.... Thanks!

I just turned 40 a month ago and Im really starting to look at younger men more than I use to. Between ages 24-36, and the young men approach me
1st, thats what really got me into younger men. Why should I feel guiltly about dating younger men when older men having been dating younger women since the beginning of time. No Im going to enjoy dating my younger men and having a good time with them. Im a Cougar and I love it!