jde

Hi! My husband and I have just been having sex with no toys what-so-ever, and I'm having difficulty having an orgasm. I was thinking more direct stimulation to my clit would definately help. I was wondering which vibrator would be the best to use while we're having sex- Maybe an egg?? Just checking to see what everyone else does out there! Thanks-

Hopeless Dork

In your condom aisle at the grocery store, or pharmacy they have those vibrating touch massagers by trojan. I think they work pretty nicely and would serve what you are looking for well. For about 7 bucks, it tiny , does the job and a good way for you to find out how you like incorperating that sort of thing into your sex before spending tons of money on vibrators in sex shops.

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Swiftus

^^^^ Good call...

Also, you will need to find out what stimulates your clit the most.

I dated one girl who had to have the dolphin. Imagine your fingers in the peace sign and that is roughly how it worked. She had to have it in the right position with the "fingers" on either side of her clit. When she finally found her orgasm with it, we never had sex without it. She clinched down so hard that I hurt for 2 days afterward.

Other women don't need that specific of a vibe. Sometimes a little bullet (a small vibe) can do the trick. Another type I have is like a bullet on a small stick. It allows both of us to use it in almost any conceivable position.

Also, you are going to need to consider what position you will use while using it. I find that doggy and woman on top (facing either direction) are the best because you get to control the speed of intercourse while having a free hand to tend to yourself.

Some men will feel inadequate when you bring toys into bed. Make sure you get your hubby involved.

hippiechick2405

I thoroughly enjoy the bullet while being on top. Amazing. Also, a friend just told me about a ball (like one of those exercise balls) that has a dildo of sorts on it. You can ride it while giving head, therefore getting equal pleasure. I am definitely going to check into that one! I also like any of the vibrators that have the spinning pearls. Wonderful sesations in different areas. Good luck.

Joy

The ball sounds fun! I would suggest the egg its fun and comes with a speed remote.

Swiftus

I thought that the egg was supposed to be inserted!?

Hopeless Dork

wow okay bouncy ball with a dildo on it? Sign me up! If bouncy balls were not fun enough as it is... lol I am serious what a great idea. I usually masturbate or grind on my boyfriends leg, couch, nearby appliances while giving him oral - this bouncy ball thing I must see!

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hippiechick2405

Ok, I'm not sure if I can put the name of the place or not, so delete it if necessary. My friend got her's from Adam and Eve. I just went and checked it out. It's called an inflatable seat (type that into the search once on their site). It's more shaped like a small tire. She said that it gives your legs quite a work out and that it needs to be bigger like the exercise balls. I think it looks pretty interesting!

kgradesigns

I love the lay a spot, its shaped like a U, so it's easy for you to use alone or with a partner. It just sits on top, or can be insertd to hit the g spot. I bought mine through a essence of romance party and it was 70 bucks but it has 6 speeds and 3 programs. plus. it's waterproof.

Tina Lee

"the lay a spot"

**Note to self**
Buy one of those!

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