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    Quote Originally Posted by AvenaSativa View Post
    YES!!!! Here's the downside... I've only been able to do it 4 times total. I've only accomplished it using a vibrator for clitoral stimulation and I did get to show the hubby but I tried it 3 times last week and nothing. Now I'm left wondering why? Guess practice makes perfect? Not sure..
    What did hubby have to say?

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    I told her it was her fault if I got carpal tunnel sydrome, lol....
    That made me laugh!

    Unfortunately, I have never squirted let alone had an orgasm with a man.

    "All the beats and melodies keep realities at bay but what happens when the records done and starts to fade away? Alone within myself again, I try to veil away my pain. The dirty grey surrounding me 'round..... And now I hear no sound."

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThexMrs View Post
    That made me laugh!

    Unfortunately, I have never squirted let alone had an orgasm with a man.

    I can relate to that! Totally don't want to come off as not being experienced, but how do you know when you are having an orgasm?

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    There are different ways of defining orgasm. The good folks at Welcomed Consensus say it's whenever your genitals feel better that the rest of your body. But the intense experience most of us think of as an orgasm creates waves of muscle spasms. They come in all levels from the mini orgasm to the OMG orgasm that leaves you trembling and tingling.

    I can often get a mini while doing kegels. While I don't recommend them for regular use, because they can reduce your sensitivity and responsiveness, a vibrator and some lube on and around your clit will probably get you there. Once you know what it feels like and how it feels as it's building up, you can switch to just using your hands. Have fun!

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    Quote Originally Posted by WildChild View Post
    There are different ways of defining orgasm. The good folks at Welcomed Consensus say it's whenever your genitals feel better that the rest of your body. But the intense experience most of us think of as an orgasm creates waves of muscle spasms. They come in all levels from the mini orgasm to the OMG orgasm that leaves you trembling and tingling.

    I can often get a mini while doing kegels. While I don't recommend them for regular use, because they can reduce your sensitivity and responsiveness, a vibrator and some lube on and around your clit will probably get you there. Once you know what it feels like and how it feels as it's building up, you can switch to just using your hands. Have fun!
    Thank you so much! I will try this

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