Thread: A late bloomer? Or maybe I just didn't believe all women could do this?

Hi! I'm 28 yrs old, married and have a very active sex life with my husband. I masterbate when he's out of town and last night something happened to me that has NEVER happened to me in my entire life. I thought I was not capable of doing it but I finally 'squirted' (sorry, don't know another term for it). This was the MOST intense orgasm I've ever had. I know I've had plenty of orgasms before this..but I can't imagine why it's taken me so long for this to happen (there was something that I did different and now I'm pretty sure I can make it happen again). For some reason, I felt just elated after it occured and felt high or something, haha.

My question is... have you squirted before? If so, did you feel different afterwards?

I have never done it but would love to. What did you do different? How do you squirt?

Yes. It does make you feel "high" lol

My wife and I discovered this several years ago. She says it's the most amazing orgasms she's ever had. The first time, it scared her, she had full body convulsions and she said she felt like she couldn't breath, but wanted me to do it again, LOL... Quite frankly, we don't have sex any more where we don't finish off with this in one way or another.

It's a G-spot orgasm that I figured out after we watched a video on the net.(they're not all bad) I can do it with my fingers, with a toy or with my penis, if we're in the right positions. With my fingers, I make the "come here" motion with my index and middle finger inside her, palm up, her on her back. I can barely reach it and I have gotten many cramps going after that one. I told her it was her fault if I got carpal tunnel sydrome, lol.... If she gets on top of me, facing me, and then leans way back and grinds away..she gets it pretty quickly. Of course, in that position, I can thumb her clitoris for double the fun....

It gets a little messy, but I don't care, it's worth the clean-up. I've found you can't just rush right to it, you have to work your way up to that. I love to start with a nice warming message oil and just take it slow. I also discovered she has a spot outside of her labia that when it's messaged deeply, she'll orgasm almost instantly....

Ok, I guess more info than anyone wanted, but I love bringing my wife to this type of orgasm...

Theresa - Not to be too graphic but basically it went like this; I was using my usual vibrating dildo and only used it to stimulate my clit, there was no penetration of any sort. I stimulated my clit until I had an orgasm...and this is the point where I usually take the vibrator away from my clit. However, this time I kept stimulating myself and the orgasm lasted longer and it was very intense. It was almost too much but I kept at it. I started getting a sensation as if I were about to urinate but it went away for a few seconds. I still kept at it.... and when that sensation came back i basically pushed on the inside (like you would if you were about to urinate) and it happened!!!! I kid you not... my freaking legs/entire vaginal area were tingly and pulsating for what seemed like a good 30 minutes after it happened.

Jayla - High was the best way to describe the aftermath, it was HIGHLY enjoyable.

MrPlezer - It's not all about penetration, it really varies from one women to the next. Some women never orgasm from penetration at all (like my sister). However, it's awesome to hear that you and your spouse enjoy it!

Thanks AvenaSativa - I can't wait to try. Sounds amazing. I will keep you posted!!!

From what I know, it can be a frustrating thing to accomplish for some women but I do believe (now, lol) that all women are capable of doing it. Hopefully, I won't be alone the next time it happens!

Theresa - Good Luck and keep us posted!

Amaranthine - Just relax and focus and you'll do it! I hope it works for you!