OhThereYouAre

Haha...i did this last night....awesome.

I wouldn't call that dirty - pretty normal if you ask me. Some women even like semen....it's warm and sticky.

Anyway - you "feel" he is watching porn? Why don't you ask him?

Now the part about doing it while you were sleeping...that's maybe pushing it.

SERE

I tried it with an ex...I thought this might be something cool to try....I mean hey its in porn right.....well to the point I tried it and lets just say it was nothing like the movies.....she was all into it at first then the first shot it.......it went from sexy look to the look of me hitting her in the face with a shovel!

Hopeless Dork

lol. I have noticed even porn stars wince and make the most horrrible face (all while saying how much they like it) at that sometimes and it always makes me feel like they should get a new job :P

With me if I woke up in the middle of the night to my boyfriend doing that - I'd be shocked AND... turned on lol. He knows I am appreciative of his orgasms when I am awake though, whatever the outcome.

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nightqueen

I don't understand. He was masterbating over you while you slept and was going to come on your face, while you were sleeping? Holy Cow. That does NOT sound right to me???

Steph33

have to agree, rates on the simply "relieve myself on you" or "use" list in my mind.

Goo on my face was always gross and "germy" to me mentally. My ex-husband wanted it often and it made me need a shower.

The BF thinks its degrading so good we agree, it's the only thing I won't do.

But I LOVE watching him cum, actually watching his penis when he squirts anywhere else on me, regardless of which one of use holds "Buddy" and points.

I like counting the number of squirts, including his couple ending contractions that produce nothing but feel good (the same) to him but I can still see the contraction or feel it with my hand.

rcoreyus

Doing that without asking permission first (and especially when you are asleep) sounds very bad. I'm not sure porn is the source of the problem though - it may have given him the idea, but he decided to act on it.

OhThereYouAre

That's funny...I really enjoy that too (when my fiance orgasms on my ). I'm usually on the bottom and I can watch her mid section tense up and can feel her vagina clamping around my penis. Lots of times I rest my middle finger on her butthole so I can feel it contracting. I would love to be able to do it better orally so I can actually SEE it happening more often.

Ugh, I'm at work and just got myself horny.

shweedart

If I woke up to my bf having a wank over my face I'd be a bit sad that he got the party started without me otherwise what the ! Though, saying that, i'd let him come anywhere apart from on my face and in me. Everyone's blown a snot bubble right? That could be a mood killer right there. Cum bubble out of the nostril!

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Hopeless Dork

lol shweedart.

I love my boyfriend coming in me, in my mouth, on my chest, on my face... you get the picture, I just love him coming lol. If he had a fantasy to do so while I was sleeping I'd be all for it.

I think what this woman's guy did though, was kind of a breech of trust. Until you know how someone feels about something... trying it out for the first time while they are not even conscious is an unfair, disrespectful move.

Unless he already knew... she approved of the act , that was pretty selfish. Most people in relationships will agree that waking up to being caressed or fondled, licked on etc.. is one of the nicer things to wake up to with the one you love. I'd never feel violated if I woke up to my boyfriends hand between my legs and I know he has no objections to waking up with head between his.

But again, it comes from a place of trust and understanding, of knowing what your partner likes and doesn't and communication. You can't just willy nilly try out new stuff while your partner is catching Z's... its weird , unless of course you've greenlit it ahead of time.

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JennaXXX

I just think everything should be neutral. If you or your partner feels confused after any sexual encounter you need to discuss that issue until its solved (even if you agree to disagree)