Steph33

My ex-husband wanted it constant. I'm not into women and he only performed enough for 2 in his own mind.

Most men want it, but as said most aren't the porn stars they think they are

It is bad news in a good relationship, if he gets obsessive about it there are other issues.

I don't care who she is, age, or otherwise. 1 woman is fully capable of tearing a guy apart till he crawls away.

I told my BF early on it wasn't for me at all. But asked him if he ever had the fantasy or who he'd want with us. His reply proves my point.

"I can barely handle you, I don't want to die"

Chantalemma

It is exactly what my bf told me too. I asked him last night... LOL



I can barely handle you, I don't want to die"

WildChild

LOL I haven't had one who keep up with me since my late 20s. The current man in my life can satisfy me fully when he chooses, he just hasn't chosen to for a loooong time. The idea that just because a woman cums a few times, it's all good, isn't really true. I want it on a deeper level than just physical at least sometimes.

OhThereYouAre

Just curious...

What's missing currently?

Chantalemma

I totally understand you WC.. You need that emotional connection and that connection between to lovers... I still have that same problem once in a while....Got to work on this...

Swiftus

The one major problem with a threesome is that the man really doesnt want a threesome.

I know men that got their wives to cave, he brings a new birdie into the nest, and then pays attention to her while the wife is sitting there wondering wtf she is supposed to be doing.

It is like a license to cheat AND your wife is forced to watch.

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On the other hand, if one of my wife's hot friends and she wanted to involve me, I would do my best to please both. I dont want them doing each other. I want one on my face and the other riding me. they can touch and lightly lick, but I dont want to see my wife face deep in another womans lap.

WildChild

LOL I know some people would assume if a woman cums that's enough, that does it. May be for some it would. But I'm multi and have pretty much been since my teens. I can sometimes get myself off just sitting at a stop light, kegeling, I don't want a man to be like a living dildo. It's the deeper connection that puts it over the top.

starjoy08

Ok,I have often thought about doing something like this but I too am scared that he will like the other girl more than me. I think when I feel comfortable in my own skin then I might be ready for that.

sarahmay

I'd get waaay too jealous. Probably end up slapping the other chick if she touched my boyfriend lol. A complete no from me.

I asked him if what he thought of threesomes. He said he didn't see the point of them - you'd still be getting the same kind of pleasure - sex is sex, and that he wouldn't want any other woman touching him like that except me. If he wanted anyone else screwing him, why would he be with me? Also, he said if he put himself in my shoes, and say we had a threesome with another male, theres no way he'd be able to handle it.

I personally think the main thing is jealousy and the after affects of the threesome. I'd be constantly paranoid that he'd just want that other woman.

Also, consider the other person partaking in it, and how you'd feel performing those kind of acts on them.

I'd personally just be like awkward awkward awkward this is weird, you're my friend (or, you're a stranger), please don't touch me like that.

But thats just me.

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