Threesome? Good? Bad?
My boyfriend causally brought up the idea of a threesome after her saw an article i hd read about guys sex fantasies. Sex is not something i take lightly so im a little hesitent, one of the main things im worried about is that he'll like the other girl more than me and i really dont like the idea of him having sex with another girl.. Is my fear legitimate or should i just not worry about it? (idk if this helpsbut we've ben together for two years)
Thanks!
If the sex life is good already, I wouldn't mess with it.
A third person can add some element of excitement, but inevitably will also add negative/weird feelings.
Although I've had threesomes in the past, and thoroughly enjoyed them, I wouldn't recommend it when you are in a committed relationship.
I certainly don't like the idea of another dude having sex with my fiance, so I'm not sure if she'd like to see me having sex with another girl.
My .02.
Well I have to say that I think it is every man's fantasy to have 2 woman at once.. that is defenetly soemthing you guys should talk about... and set boundaries... no cheating after this, 1 time thing... how much can he do to this other person.. what he is allowed.. who is this other person goign to be... and what you want him to do... then ask if he would let you do the same...?? If he says no... then what is good for the goose is good for the gander right??? That is what I think... my personal opinion... and liking her better than you I think I would feel the same. I wouldn't liek the idea very much...But totally up to you.
If the idea doesn'tget your juices flowing then tell him to fantasize all he wants, but you aren't going there.
Anyway most guys can't begin to keep up with One horny woman. LOL
Ouch.Originally Posted by WildChild
Thanks guys, I think if it weren't a committed relationship and I had no feelings for him I would go for it, and i know this will sound y but he's mine... i don't want to share. Maybe after we're married and im bored just to spice things up!
You all helped A LOT
well said WC. i would think that after the first orgasm and girl number 2 says my turn, most men would not be able to deliver for some time..one horny woman is all most men can handle, and then some..
a smart man learns from his mistakes..a wise man learns from the mistakes of others..
I can't say I haven't had this fantasy myself. Assuming my wife was into it, I don't know that I would go through with it for all the reasons mentioned above. However, the part of the threesome that would get me going would be watching my wife go at it with another girl. I would want to participate with foreplay and maybe doing oral on both of them, but I think I'd only want my wife to pop my cork....At least, that's how the fantasy played out in my head...LOL, and I'm sure that's where it will stay...
I think as we mature (I'm no where near getting older yet) we learn that quality counts for far more than quantity.
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