scared to orgasm... please help...

nole · 07-15-2009, 11:48 AM

HI! so ok here it goes

I know i have come very close to having an orgasm or maybe i have had an orgasm idk... but i know most of you know that feeling you get like you kinda have to pee, and i guess its called squirting and its not pee at all, well im terrified to do that. Can ayone give me any advice about how to relax and whether or not i should be worried about my boyfriends reaction. In your experiences has this totally freaked your partners out or do they accept it? My guy was the one who actually told me about it, but i just can't fully relaxand just let it happen... PLEASE HELP!

**WildChild** · 07-15-2009, 01:16 PM

There have been several threads on this, some quite recent. Why don't you do some reading and see if your concerns are addressed. I think you'll find quite a lot of converstation on this.

**Theresa** · 07-15-2009, 02:26 PM

I wish I could squirt. I have tried but have never got the right combination of things to make me do it. Just relax and let yourself go. You are very fortunate to have this happening. It has been said that is a wonderful feeling. Take advantage of it.

**starjoy08** · 07-15-2009, 03:02 PM

Don't be scared, it is great when it happens!!!

sextherapist · 07-19-2009, 09:41 AM

Practice on your own for a while first. Get yourself a dildo or some other sex toy and practice! He won't be around the first time you do it so you can get comfortable with yourself first. If you make it awkward or feel awkward when it happens, he will notice that vibe and may feel that way. Get used to doing it on your own first and then when you do it with him you'll be confident and he will think you're a goddess. :-)

Toby.W · 07-19-2009, 11:46 PM

Umm, people sorry to sound like a dumb butt but. Does it go every were when you do it?? I've never done it but I have felt that feeling in me..I thought I needed to go to the toilet till I read up on it. (This is like 4 yr's ago).

**kira** · 07-20-2009, 02:51 PM

Depends on the person. Odds are you won't squirt all the way across the room like in some porno vids. It may just run out or it might be about as strong as when you are pushing urine out. I did actually try once but my body seems so set against liquid coming from there unless I'm on a toilet that it wouldn't cooperate. Instead it just forces back into my bladder and I end up really feeling like my bladder is full then peeing a whole bunch of clear liquid when I go to the toilet later.

**alicat** · 07-20-2009, 07:33 PM

just relax and let whatever happens happen

07-15-2009, 11:48 AM	#1
nole Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 3	scared to orgasm... please help... HI! so ok here it goes I know i have come very close to having an orgasm or maybe i have had an orgasm idk... but i know most of you know that feeling you get like you kinda have to pee, and i guess its called squirting and its not pee at all, well im terrified to do that. Can ayone give me any advice about how to relax and whether or not i should be worried about my boyfriends reaction. In your experiences has this totally freaked your partners out or do they accept it? My guy was the one who actually told me about it, but i just can't fully relaxand just let it happen... PLEASE HELP!

07-19-2009, 09:41 AM	#5
sextherapist Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 6	Practice on your own for a while first. Get yourself a dildo or some other sex toy and practice! He won't be around the first time you do it so you can get comfortable with yourself first. If you make it awkward or feel awkward when it happens, he will notice that vibe and may feel that way. Get used to doing it on your own first and then when you do it with him you'll be confident and he will think you're a goddess. :-) Last edited by WildChild; 07-19-2009 at 09:46 AM. Reason: removed outbound link

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07-15-2009, 01:16 PM	#2
WildChild WH Moderator Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 8,690 Blog Entries: 6	There have been several threads on this, some quite recent. Why don't you do some reading and see if your concerns are addressed. I think you'll find quite a lot of converstation on this.

07-15-2009, 02:26 PM	#3
Theresa Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: SW ND Posts: 242	I wish I could squirt. I have tried but have never got the right combination of things to make me do it. Just relax and let yourself go. You are very fortunate to have this happening. It has been said that is a wonderful feeling. Take advantage of it.

07-15-2009, 03:02 PM	#4
starjoy08 VIP Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: In the Alabama area Posts: 60 Blog Entries: 1	Don't be scared, it is great when it happens!!!

07-19-2009, 11:46 PM	#6
Toby.W Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 12	Umm, people sorry to sound like a dumb butt but. Does it go every were when you do it?? I've never done it but I have felt that feeling in me..I thought I needed to go to the toilet till I read up on it. (This is like 4 yr's ago).

07-20-2009, 02:51 PM	#7
kira Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 314	Depends on the person. Odds are you won't squirt all the way across the room like in some porno vids. It may just run out or it might be about as strong as when you are pushing urine out. I did actually try once but my body seems so set against liquid coming from there unless I'm on a toilet that it wouldn't cooperate. Instead it just forces back into my bladder and I end up really feeling like my bladder is full then peeing a whole bunch of clear liquid when I go to the toilet later.

07-20-2009, 07:33 PM	#8
alicat VIP Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 68	just relax and let whatever happens happen