Thread: Honestly girls...are you bi-curious?

ok, I know a couple close friends that'll confide and tell me they'd love to be with another girl. I know I wanna try it. How many of you have tried it or would love to try it, but are too shy to really admit it? It's the internet, so we can be brave here right? haha. Anyhow ladies, I'd love to hear your thoughts or experiences.

Not in the least. I don't even really like hanging out and talking to other girls. I've always preferred male friends and I fail to see much I could do with another girl that I can't with a boyfriend. The few things that might exist aren't more interesting than just having sex.

ha, true kira no substitute for the real thing. Don't get me wrong, I love my hubby's , just thinking out loud.

I think men are just getting away with imparting our own desires on you women and thus making you bicurious with all of our suggestions.

Like the rise of anal sex (as being discussed in another thread), women are simply convincing themselves that certain things are normal because we are convincing you it is. This has caused a rise in the number of women willing to go "greek"

Sorry, I dont think that bi curiosity is natural at all.

Ideally, my ultimate 3some involves 2 women but me pleasing both at the same time. I have no desire to come home and watch my wife face down in another woman.

Originally Posted by Swiftus

I think men are just getting away with imparting our own desires on you women and thus making you bicurious with all of our suggestions.

Like the rise of anal sex (as being discussed in another thread), women are simply convincing themselves that certain things are normal because we are convincing you it is. This has caused a rise in the number of women willing to go "greek"

Sorry, I dont think that bi curiosity is natural at all.

Ideally, my ultimate 3some involves 2 women but me pleasing both at the same time. I have no desire to come home and watch my wife face down in another woman.

I did not have any man suggesting to me that I should try anal sex. It was something I had been thinking about on my own, and it happened pretty spontaneously between my partner and I. And I genuinely, truly enjoyed it, with no one pressuring me to do so.

I also was involved in a threesome a little over a year ago. I was the third wheel, so to speak. When I was younger, I really wasn't interested in women at all, I even kissed a couple girls in college and found it did nothing for me (I went to a women's college, everyone was doing it, LOL). But at some point, I decided I wanted to see what it was like for any male partner I might have. I wanted to get up close and personal with a woman's bits, to get a greater understanding of my own bits. No one at all was pressuring me. After that, I had no more interest in women. I don't think my interest was unnatural at all, as I wanted to get a greater understanding of my own body and sexuality, which I think is a pretty natural thing.

I think you're painting with too broad a brush. Of course many women are conditioned into thinking that they should be into women, or they should let their partners try oral sex. But there are many more of us who make independent decisions based on our own desires. What can be more natural that fulfilling our own desires?

I meant try anal sex, not oral sex. Doh.

I'm not bi-curious. I do not feel the want to be with.. like with with other girls. but when me & mah friends are hanging out, we are always on top of each other. haha, not in a bi or les way, but like we turn the music up loud, & get on top of each other, & dance on each other. & we dont feel anything of it. its cool with all of us.

When I was younger I was sexually attracted to women. Women were almost primarily my masturbation fantasy. Somewhere along the lines I lost that... don't know why , I didn't try to lose that, I just started becoming fascinated with the penis. Girls bodies got boring to me. I never had the desire to have sex with a woman, only liked looking at their bodies.

My brothers and dad use to have porno mags hidden and I think I found the desire there. I would look at the pictures of the naked women and think that represented sex, so it would turn me on. But in the flesh I was never attracted to a woman and the furthest thing from my mind would be actual sex with one.

But as time went on , womens bodies did less and less for me and male bodies did more and more.

Originally Posted by golden_nemesis

I did not have any man suggesting to me that I should try anal sex. It was something I had been thinking about on my own, and it happened pretty spontaneously between my partner and I. And I genuinely, truly enjoyed it, with no one pressuring me to do so.

I also was involved in a threesome a little over a year ago. I was the third wheel, so to speak. When I was younger, I really wasn't interested in women at all, I even kissed a couple girls in college and found it did nothing for me (I went to a women's college, everyone was doing it, LOL). But at some point, I decided I wanted to see what it was like for any male partner I might have. I wanted to get up close and personal with a woman's bits, to get a greater understanding of my own bits. No one at all was pressuring me. After that, I had no more interest in women. I don't think my interest was unnatural at all, as I wanted to get a greater understanding of my own body and sexuality, which I think is a pretty natural thing.

I think you're painting with too broad a brush. Of course many women are conditioned into thinking that they should be into women, or they should let their partners try oral sex. But there are many more of us who make independent decisions based on our own desires. What can be more natural that fulfilling our own desires?

Sorry if you took what I said the wrong way.

Yes, there are women who want the company of other women. Yes, there are women who want anal sex. However, I highly doubt that there were this many women on the planet who would be willing to do either or both. I highly doubt that women would feel it is okay to have a man ejaculate on their face. I guarantee that most of us would have never known about the "money shot" if it weren't for Peter North in the 80s.

I am simply saying that us men are busy convincing women that they want to do things that we want them to do. And yes, I am speaking in generalizations.