Is this okay to ask my wife?
Okay, so this week my wife has the visitor.
Sure, I get the occasional blow job. However, I still masturbate once per day or every other day. I am usually taking care of that in front of the computer/tv where I have a movie to watch.
I want to incorporate my wife more. Is it okay for me to ask her to put on something sexy/slutty and model for me while I touch myself? Is that too strange? Would you women find that to be odd?
It would depend on your wife and her sex drive. I personally love being included in my boyfriends pleasure so if he asked me to do things for him to watch while on my visitor I would LOVE it.
But then, I have a really high drive and don't miss a beat, visitor or not. We don't have sex on my period but I like providing him with all the oral he can tolerate and having him or myself rub me through the outside of my clothes, either with pressing our bodies on each other, either of our hands or some vibrating thing.
I'd much prefer providing him with the visual and tactile stimulation he needs VS him watching a movie alone. If I am not home that is one thing, but if I am in the house and he is turned on I want to be a part of it more than anything.
Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.
I enjoy seeing the man in my life pleasuring himself but I always want in on the action. You don't do sex when she's menstrating? I always got off even better then and that's saying something! By all means tell her you'd love to have her give you a hand so to speak.
I would lov emy bf to ask me. But then it depends on your so. When I am in my period, ( or have a visitor) Aunt Rose I should say LOL!! I am most turned on and horny but he always says that his little soldier is scared of blood. His soldier was the one peeling potatoes and not on the front line. So we never do anything to me while I am on the rag. But I give him hands jobs, bj and all kinds of things. I would ask her, worse thing she is going to say is that she is not into it right?
I'd be more apt to ask if or why you couldn't have sex? Is that her decision, yours or a mutual thing?
It's just blood....
My husband can't stand the sight of blood, so we never do it while I have my visitor, but I'd love to be part of the action.
I say ask her..
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment."
Ralph Waldo Emerson
First off, thanks for the insight.
Secondly, it is more of my choice. Period blood burns my mandingo warrior.
Lastly, I am more curious of what is going through your mind.
I did ask her and she said that we could give it a shot (sorry for the pun). I am just trying to come to terms on whether or not she is being truthful or she is just willing to do what I ask.
My next question is easy... Do I simply tell her to dress up in her short skirt and a bra and simply masturbate above/on her?
I am conscious about not wanting my wife to feel like an object and always like a woman. Perhaps I should try this with some porn on. Maybe she will do a little diddling on her own?
Why would blood burn your "mandingo warrior"?
Wear a condom then if it burns.
I havent worn a condom in 5 years. I think my wife would be just as weirded out as I.
Guys, I am not talking the whole week here, just the first 3-4 heavier days.
I have no idea about my boyfriends feelings on period sex, never asked, I wouldn't mind it because I am SO more sexually inclined during that time of the month but I somehow how feel it would not be something he'd want, I could be wrong. But its kind of fun to use that week to find other ways to please each other, to hold and cuddle more and to find the closeness without penetration. So its kind of a win-win either way if handled right.
The first time you do this swiftus, I'd do it without the porn. Why don't you make out like you normally do... when your mandigo warrior can't take it anymore, take it out and do what comes naturally to it, while she stays close. Ask her if you guys can roleplay, pretend shes a peepshow worker (that would be fun if you ask me lol) make an imaginary glass and you aren't allowed to touch but you can tell her what to do, or whatever rules you guys want - its your fantasy!
Theres just a million and one ways to do this , pick one! Or five!
Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.
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