Thread: Why do the things that make most people horny turn me off?

Okay, I am officially confused as to why the things that make most people horny turn me off. So maybe you guys can help me.

I love making out/kissing passionately; that turns me on like nothing else. I love for a guy to play with my breasts outside of my shirt. I love to rub my privates outside of my jeans. I play with myself a lot outside of my clothes.

BUT... if anyone, even me, touches me inside my clothes, it does nothing for me and turns me off, even touching my private areas and breasts. It does not hurt or feel uncomfortable in any way; I actually don't feel anything at all.

I'm tired of pretending it does things for me when it actually does the opposite... Nobody but me can get me off, or at least hasn't yet, though my boyfriend certainly comes close when he kisses me!

I would like to know what to do, because guys usually like to touch inside the clothes. How can I satisfy someone who loves touching me, like my boyfriend? How do I tell him that it turns me off? And how can he satisfy me?

Here are some things that might help:

Male parts gross me out a little bit and female lower parts aren't much better but are tolerable. I can do stuff with or to guy parts, I just don't care for looking at them.

Vibrators don't do anything except numb me. I don't have any weird fetishes that I know of, and I don't mind being naked so it isn't that.

When I fantasize, it's about what would happen if I was so horny that I couldn't control myself. Which, btw, has never happened to me except when I kiss my current boyfriend and even then it builds over several long kisses. (he's the only guy I've ever met that can kiss well, and has only recently learned how to do that)

I have only had sex once (he kept falling out, so even I knew THAT was bad), but I have done a lot of different kinds of foreplay. I even sucked on a guy once. (God, that was gross!)

I am not gay or bi; I don't like looking at women in a sexual way or kissing them.