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    alright, this one might be a bit awkward to talk about, and a bit of a confession as well. Ok so about a week ago, I slept with an "old friend" and a few hours later, i slept with my ex as well. I know its horrible, but it happened. Well before, i used to masturbate every now and then, but for sure once a week. Now, after this for some reason i feel very uncomfortable to touch myself. Like I feel the urge to, because Im sexually frustrated, but i can't do myself that deed anymore, I dont even want to touch myself, its weird. I used to have sex or do that at least twice a week, ever since that day i feel uncomfortable with myself.....??? any help? suggestions? advice?? words of wisdom????

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.sin.t.uh View Post
    I slept with an "old friend" and a few hours later, i slept with my ex as well. I know its horrible, but it happened.


    I hope you practised safe sex with both of them.

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    i did. but i'm so ashamed by what happened.

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    There is your answer.

    It has bugged you so much for what you did, that you feel ashamed and as such you can't tough yourself.

    Touching yourself is being initimate with, well yourself, but because you did something that was in your books not on, two in one night, you feel that horrid that your turned off.

    GIve yourself some time.

    Don't look down on yourself, circumstances happened, you know it was silly but you feel tarty as a result and so you can't touch yourself.

    You'll get over it.

    Not sure what possessed you to do what you did, only you know but again ONLY YOU KNOW>.

    So get over it and learn.

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    thanks, i like how your straight out

    "So get over it and learn."

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.sin.t.uh View Post
    i did. but i'm so ashamed by what happened.
    I think i would be to (not that i'd sleep with 2 men on the same day) but its happened now so get over it, and you know what they say yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery but only this moment is mine

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    LOL there's the verdic " get over it"...

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    but its happened now so get over it
    You know seriously? the above is like past is the past, present is the present, future is the future.

    You think we all don't make mistakes...?

    Or learn from them?


    I hope you had fun, clock it down to naughty memory and "get over it " no, no, no, I mean Grow from it..

    You did something some would love to do but never do...

    But, but, don't do it again... It's not good for you....

    Seriously..

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    Oh no i won't! I still have no idea why I did that. I mean with my ex i know why it happened, but with the old friend- well that just happened, i was drinking and depressed. We all make mistakes. ANd i know i don't want to be that kind of person. Thanks everyone for being straight out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH View Post
    the above is like past is the past, present is the present, future is the future.
    Which of course is the correct answer

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    i think that it is because your terrified that you had sex with two people in the same night that your punishing yourself and not allowing pleasure to yourself. just my opinion.


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