What is he thinking

**sanity47** · 08-04-2009 03:49 AM

Still wondering what he thinks. We are having sex on regular basis and its becoming better all time. The relationship is in a new phase but still new.
A few times while being somewhat missonary. I have wanted to help things by helping myself in addtion so I get a pretty good combination going on.The first time he seemed alittle suprise( I was too cause I really wasn't thinking) that I reached down and did my own thing while he doing his think.. Another time I did and realized that he was watching, so I stopped but he wouldn't really let me.. I think he liked or did he think that he wasn't doing his job???
????

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 08-04-2009 03:58 AM

Sanity... the way you described it? You have no inhibitions just what a man would love in a woman....

Irrespective, you need to "ALWAYS" be you... They need to see you.. If they don't like it then imagine your sex life?

He was enthralled and watched, and was excited..

Discuss with him that you enjoy masturbating whilst he is doing it , it's like a domino effect, double ... nothing to do with inadequacy rather loving what he's doing and wanting to feel the whole 9 yards.

CW

**Mrs Doodles** · 08-04-2009 04:50 AM

He was probably enjoying watching you

**Chantalemma** · 08-04-2009 05:28 AM

My Bf loves watching me while he does his own thing.

**OhThereYouAre** · 08-04-2009 05:46 AM

If he's watching....and says "don't stop"....that's a good thing.

It's sexy watching our women receive pleasure. It's also sexy because they can show us what feels good to them.

He likes it.

**LanaBear** · 08-04-2009 11:46 AM

I'm sure he liked it. My DH loves it when I do it, a lot of men do.

**Ahryin** · 08-04-2009 12:55 PM

He was surprised because you went for "you" vs leaving the job up to him that is a major turn on and also shows him what to do and what you like. Some times it takes some of the pressure off. Its a good thing girly