Thread: Sex Grosses Me Out

If he did actually say those words to you and thats not just what you assumed he thought, he definitely didn't help your sex phobia with that kind of attitude. When you are with the man that treats you like you deserve to be treated, and you feel love, you will be more apt to return that love in all forms.

And just because you don't like something now , does not mean you will always feel that way. Before my boyfriend, I could never imagine enjoying sex the way that I do now. The difference is how I feel about it.

I was also sexually abused but instead of being put off sex, I acted out sexually in my teenage years, though didn't really enjoy it. I always got pleasure in masturbating but when I would have sex with someone I was vacant, uninterested in my own pleasure, I also never had sex with anyone I had true feelings for. I didn't like performing oral sex though I would attempt it, I didn't want the guy to finish in my mouth and thought that it would be gross.

After falling in love with my boyfriend all my feelings changed, one... he put me so at ease that I was able to relax and let go with him, our sex brings me pleasures I never imagined possible. I am now extremely fond of oral sex and look forward to his ejaculations with anticipation , because I know it makes him feel good and I love it.

I never imagined I would , and here now I do. I am not saying you will feel differently tommorrow... I am just saying that don't think the way you feel now will always feel the same. All it takes is finding the right guy, or the right guy finding you. Someone that makes you feel safe and loved and when you are into him with all your heart your feelings towards his semen will likely change dramatically.

Well, sex gross you out and I may understand. As a Christian as you are, you NEED to understand that God created all that stuff that gross you out: Semen, fluids, odors, etc. So did God commit a flaw by creating all that stuff? If not, then you need to start to ENJOY this stuff. Being sexually abused when 13 is one thing. You would STILL have to learn to enjoy this stuff.

It is a mental excersise. You can enjoy it if you want.

Is sad to hear about what happened to you at the tender age of 13.

I would say you have a negative association with semen, which is the tip of the iceberg.

What really grosses you out is what is connected to that ...

I believe you have to reprogram yourself, to revisit that situation but with your partners semen.

Lets face the fact that sex is very messy, we as humans urinate, defecate, ejaculate etc.

Sex can either be an incredibly beautiful thing or monstrously horrible.

Making love to some one that you love is really the ultimate way of expressing your love for them and their love for you.

If your fortunate enough to reach the point that will ultimatley lead to orgasm you'll experience heaven, for me on the end of orgasm it felt like a out of body experience its almost like your souls touch for a moment in time whatever those natural opiates do its one incredible experience beyond what I have ever experienced in my entire life.

In fact I would say its a defining moment in your life that is life changing.

There are no regrets, no hangover, no sickness, no headaches, just a moment in time that leaves you feeling refreshed, in love, peaceful, amazed, and recharged.

i have a question, i'm not disgusted completely by sex.
I get aroused and i even have sex regularly with my boyfriend.

Sometimes, i get disugsted with myself, after i cum. Is this normal?
OR am i a freak of nature?