Thread: Ask us men anything - we'll tell you straight up

Originally Posted by hello_pitty

I have a question too!

Does it really start to get uncomfortable for men if they haven't cum in a few days or even a week? Like do their testes get "full" and uncomfortable?

Yes. OYTA explained the sensation perfectly.

My experience has been that I have the the full, uncomfortable feeling at first. There isn't any pain until I've been turned on for a while. After that, though, my balls will swell up and turn bright red and start hurting.

I wouldn't call the pain excruciating, but it's definitely enough to make a guy want to do something about it. It takes a while to go away, too.

Originally Posted by hello_pitty

I have a question too!

Does it really start to get uncomfortable for men if they haven't cum in a few days or even a week? Like do their testes get "full" and uncomfortable?

reminds me of a funny story one of my male friends told me after he broke up with his boyfriend. they were very sexually active and the first week after the break up he was in pain, so much so that he went to the dr to figure out what was wrong. after a few questions from the dr, the dr told him that he had a back up of semen and he was sure he (my friend) knew how to alleviate the pressure.

also, given a little time, a mans body will absorb the build up. our bodies get use to certain production levels. it just takes time to readjust.

cheers!

Originally Posted by OhThereYouAre

In my experience, yes. Not necessarily a variety of women, but variety in general.

I think I need to swap brains with a man. Why? Does that mean men will always think of sleeping with other women? It's scary, because many men can't refuse sex when it's offered or when they're seduced. I have a high sex drive and I'm really generous and experimental in bed. But if the variety thing holds true, what can you do to keep them faithful?

Originally Posted by caterpillar79

OG, what complications would these be?

balls the size of basketballs LOL!! no not really, i'd like to know too though.

Originally Posted by rachel801

Does that mean men will always think of sleeping with other women? It's scary, because many men can't refuse sex when it's offered or when they're seduced. I have a high sex drive and I'm really generous and experimental in bed. But if the variety thing holds true, what can you do to keep them faithful?

Some men might ponder what it'd be like to be/sleep with some of the other woman they encounter. But it's usually nothing more than a very brief fantasy.

A man being unfaithful to his girlfriend or wife is indicative of a character flaw or of a flaw within the relationship.

It seems to me like men know more about how a woman masturbates then a woman does herself. Why is that?

Originally Posted by Goodgirl93

then a woman does herself. Why is that?

'than many women do themselves' is probably more accurate.

I wonder if it is because many women are still being taught that good girls don't touch themselves and so they don't really experiment and find out what feels good. Men on the other hand typically are less inhibited when it comes to the subject and so they also pick up on female masturbation techniques.