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**newhere808** · 01-04-2010 01:20 AM

Originally Posted by lostme

I am curious if (if this pertains to any of you or maybe your friends) any of you have had a depleted sex drive after having a vasectomy?

I have only heard that it can happen to some men, and that it is mostly a psychological issue. Granted that doesn't make it any less real. Apparently some men feel like less of a man, and honestly I could understand why, no guy would want to feel like they had been nuetered.

**pretzel** · 01-04-2010 07:08 AM

Originally Posted by lostme

I am curious if (if this pertains to any of you or maybe your friends) any of you have had a depleted sex drive after having a vasectomy?

ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I had mine done about 8 years ago. It didn't change a thing as far as sex drive goes.

**lostme** · 01-04-2010 07:42 AM

Thank you for the answers. I think maybe it is different for everyone.

**Wintertime** · 01-04-2010 11:14 AM

Originally Posted by OhThereYouAre

I like when she sucks on my fingers simulating a BJ. Most guys do.

The bottom side of the penis under the head. Swirl your tongue there during oral every once in a while.

If they are in the mood...pressing (not penetrating) on the the backdoor is very pleasant toward the end of intercourse.

Breathing/licking, lightly grazing neck/ears is awesome foreplay.

Don't touch our nipples.

I have one guy partner who's favorite turn on is nipple attention. It is the sure thing to finish him off if he's having trouble orgasming.

**rcoreyus** · 01-04-2010 11:45 AM

For some men, having their nipples touched, licked, bitten is very arousing. Its worth a try. If he doesn't like it, he should say so. Try other locations as well - men aren't identical robots, you may find all sorts of interesting spots that turn him on (that he may not even know about himself).

**Ahryin** · 01-04-2010 12:18 PM

Can some of the guys go to the post "Are some things better left unsaid" I'm VERY curious if the guys will give the same response my brother just did

**Millania** · 01-04-2010 12:40 PM

alright Men, if you dont mind, please look at my "porn" thread I started today 1/4/10 thank you for your time

**Little** · 01-04-2010 12:56 PM

I'm closing this thread - I expect that all of our male posters would contribute on any thread they felt versed enough on. Any poster, male or female, should expect answers from posters of both genders.
I want our male posters to feel welcomed in any portion of the forum, and I feel this thread only limits them. It also makes conversations scattered across the board and difficult to follow in some cases.
Feel free to repost your specific questions into the forums in which they belong, if they haven't been covered here.